My Ideal Person:
i like assertive, confident, stable men who know what they want out of life. i prefer to be approached, and will rarely turn down somone based on looks... A drink/coffe/dinner/date does not automatically imply sex in my book.

Personality, common decency and gentlemanly conduct go a long way...communication is important and so is chemistry, i do not usually get into "wham bam, thank you man" situations, although at times that can be a good idea... however generally, i prefer to get to know an individual a little bit, spend some time chatting, perhaps, and go for a romantic stroll followed by a sesual evening in a well appointed environment. This also does not suggest i am to get into a ltr with the person, i simply like passion, tactil stimulation and i like to enjoy a good time with a good man. i like a man who can kiss, i like a man who knows what to do with his hands and fingers, and i like a man who knows what it actually means to be a TOP.