Update on 19th October 2010
I will be in Melbourne late June 2011. have just booked my tickets , much cheaper if early 
Welcome Melbourne guys aged 30-48 & gals 18-40 notify me so we can see how much we click and then meet in Melb later can be as friends and or more
i am deaf, but talk normally. also lipreading in English, Malay and Mandarin. also lipreading in 2 chinese dialects, fuzhou and fujian
so welcome any guys who dont mind my deafness. so no awkwardness between us when we meet
this is very important to me. ok?
patience, understanding, tolerance and loving attention is important to keep a relationship going with me
cheers,
hope to hear from u all 
now i am in Malaysia. am full chinese from the state of Sarawak, Malaysia.
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I am a malaysian chinese gal living here for a period of time and i hope to have some friends who i can have a good email friendship regardless of age and gender,or those who wish to have some one to talk ,yet have no time for them. i am a friendly ,easygoing ,cheerful and have a great sense of humour person.
At the same time,i hope to know chinese people who are of Foochow/Fuzhou dialect and if anyone know of these people ,please tell them that i hope to befriend them regardless of age and gender as i hope to know more chinese people too.and preferably in melbourne,victoria...Australia.if not,it is okay ,you can still email me too.
To all chinese friends or who type mandarin words to me, i can read and understand mandarin or chinese but hard for me to type or reply to u in chinese cos not good in pinyin as i am english educated. if u can understand and know what i type in english in reply to your email in chinese,then is no problem at all here. agree? 抱歉, 我不會鍵入國語而是能讀和瞭解國語.
oh yeah ..i am deaf or rather hearing impaired..thus hoping to know people who don't have prejudice against this disability. I can talk because I got deaf at age 19 and can lipread in a few chinese dialects,Malay language and English.
UPDATE 1st May 2009 : I am in Malaysia now but willing to live with the guy i love in his country. but he must be willing to chat online and know each other first before he come to my country to meet. this is very important! thanks! 
Life has taught me many lessons. I believe that whatever happens, happens for a reason.
The most difficult lesson to learn is what bridge to cross and which one to break off.
I was told that not to make any efforts because the best things happen when you least expect them. The more percisely you plan, the harder destiny will hit you.
Perhaps God would want me to become aquainted with many different people in my life , so that when I meet the right one I will appreciate and cherish what I have.
Well,hear from you all ...
My Ideal Person:
those who are nice,easygoing,friendly ,have a good sense of humour so that i can talk about anything with, regardless of age or gender.
As for what I like in a man or in most of everybody, he or they must be confident but not snobbish or proud, accomplished or working towards a goal but not boastful. I enjoy people who naturally thinks about the feelings of others. I enjoy people who truly value individuals for their inner beauty ,not their resume and bank account. Character matters to me. Honesty, integrity, humor, stability, and courtesy are important. I also love people that is in my definition of good looks and body that is easy on the eye and judgement as the saying goes "beauty is in the eye of the beholder",right?^_~ My favorite people are those who are mentally stimulating and can discuss almost anything.
I think the most important thing that I am looking for is good chemistry. What makes for good chemistry is a mystery to me. It is either there, or it is not. If it is not there, then there is always hope for a friendship.
I would like to meet someone special. A person that can make my heart melt just by looking at me. A person that can warm my heart, and make me smile. A special one who makes life all worth while, or else, life would be empty and meaningless. A person who shines like sunlight and is as beautiful as an evening sunset. Their heart is pure and gentle. When I look into this special person's eyes, I feel lost and powerless. That someone special should not be willing to read my face and body only, but also to read my deep thoughts, my feelings and my soul. Once we find the door to mutual souls, there will be a passage towards being soulmates eternally. I truly believe that the eyes are the window to the soul. I love to see a mischievious little twinkle in your eye and won't object if you smile a lot. It makes me want to get to know you better. Life is serious enough, so I hope you can laugh easily and have fun. Suit and tie or jeans...I'm more interested in a great personality than social stereotypes. I guess am a romantic person
If there is chemistry, and when a relationship is to form, there are some qualities I look for. Most important is honesty. I would want you to feel like you can be honest with me at all times. I would also like to feel comfortable telling you anything. I think honesty leads to good communication, that is also very important. Of course, it would be nice to have some things in common as in having similar tastes in our mutual activities. It is good to have some things we like doing together. Any relationship is built upon friendship and trust.
My ideal man would be a man looking to settle down with one woman. One who is sensitive, caring and thoughtful. He must also be outgoing, enjoy having a good time and honest, as I have had played enough games. I only want a man who has no major complications in his life, as I am one of the easiest going people you will have ever met. With the way the world is today, we have enough stressors in our lives, so I try to minimize the ones I create as much as possible.
He or they isn't afraid to just be themselves and not worry about other people's opinions, that can like me for who I am and not judge me on my looks alone, that can let me be strong for them and give the same in return when I need it. Someone that wants a real relationship with their soul-mate with a good strong family and children. Someone intelligent, loyal, funny, honest, romantic, passionate, physically affectionate, caring, mature. Someone that is willing to put forth the effort to make and keep a relationship no matter the odds or difficulties that arise, that's not afraid to take bad with good whatever the balance working[there are ups and downs in life so here looking for someone that is willing to laugh and cry with me], to make it last and keep getting better. Age was never an issue since intelligence and maturity mean a lot more than a number[ not over age 45+ , younger can be accepted or age over 45 must be young at heart,looks and body in my definition ,of course! ..so come to convince me!~ ^_~]. Someone to really share life and appreciate it. Able to respect other people is very important as well.
Someone that is fit and cares for themselves with exercise,that is in decent shape and cares about what they look like but not so much that it is ALL they worry about so they aren't completely high maintenance and affect our relationship later. If you are interested, I would love to hear from you.
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