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Blogs > MarbleKing > Crown of Conscience


MarbleKing 57M
34 posts
2/3/2008 1:54 pm

Last Read:
2/9/2008 4:16 pm
How do I avoid the heart trap?

It had been decided that since I have not enough assets to attract a lady here,at least on this website,I will seek my luck across the sea.to be sure,the idea that someone is only wanting to come here just to be in a better economy has crossed my mind,in fact,other than not choosing too quickly I wonder what I can do to avoid picking someone who has this kind of plan?I want to have a family,but I do not want to choose someone who is not nice to look at,not TOO nice or I know I will have problems.Just someone who is willing to throw their fate into the pot and hope for the best which is better than where they may live,apparantly,in this country,choosing to live alone is preferable to choosing me,as I have yet to meet someone who is not interested in how much I make,I am no bum,but it seems that women here want a whole lot before they even talk to you.Apparently,they have high value.Am I mistaken in thinking that a decent guy who is healthy and clean can meet someone here?Its been seven years since I have been trying and apparently I just must have some kind of hideous luck or aura,but few of the people that I have approached ever read this blog and if they do I may be conceited in thinking they would take a chance based upon what I had wrote,but I am mistaken,It's not the first time,and won't be the last.maybe I should walk around Sac town China Town with a sign like the sign shakers have,will work for Asian Wife,what a joker!

MarbleKing 57M
38 posts
2/3/2008 5:43 pm

 What Lovley and Wonderful advice!,the kind I have been seeking all along,why now when I have give up on this sight?Life is Ironic.In fact,I wish I can have many friends on here,but It never seems to go much farther,maybe I should try to add some friends(^_^)


MarbleKing 57M
38 posts
2/3/2008 5:42 pm

 Wjat Lovley and wonderful advice,the kind I ahve been seeking all along,why now when I have give up on this sight?Life is Ironic.In fact,I wish I can have many friends on here,but It never seems to go much farther,maybe I should try to add some friends(^_^)


victorylee0516
(victoria lee) 42F

2/3/2008 2:37 pm

 Choose an older woman with a child, that is the best solution for you. A younger woman will start looking for alternatives if she really does not like you. A woman with a child has a vested interest to take care of her child first and you second. Most of them women are willing to work hard for a chance at a second start in life with their child and will be greateful to you for that opportunity you give to them.

The ask for a few things:

Respect.
Security.
Opportunity.

The rest is up to you.

VICKY