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How to get around of AFF automatic censor machine
Posted:Aug 17, 2019 9:32 am
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2019 8:50 am
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I have been frustrated for so long with Asia Friendfinder automatic censor machine. I posted my profile on Asia Friendfinder after I filed divorce 5 months later. In my profile, I mentioned I emigrated to USA in 19 and 80. I called Asia Friendfinder toll free phone #s and always Filipino answered the phone. They explained my profile was denied because I put all 4 digits together and the censor machine think I gave away my phone #s. I asked to talk to their supervisor but they refused. However, they did manually changed the year with 4 digits together. I have edited my profile several times when I had another long trip overseas. Every time I had to call Asia Friendfinder again to have them manually changed the year with 4 digits together.

Then I posted blogs that been denied because the word "k*ll". Such as the lyrics in "Imagine" Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to k*ll or die for
And no religion, too
I tried to edit the word "k*ll" but the rest of lyrics have been changed or deleted. I have to call them again and Filipino refused me to talk to their supervisor or the "technical support". I was frustrated. I asked her or his name, they refused to give me. They put me on hold for long time. I insisted that I didn't k*ll anyone but the lyrics has the word "k*ll". Finally they agreed me to escalate to urgent matter and their supervisor emailed me. I kept their email address and directly contact them without going through the painful Asia Friendfinder operator. Asia Friendfinder operator sounded like I can't talk to their supervisor, I only can deal with them.

I have posted my Italy travel log. There are 7 pictures in Vatican with Michelangelo statue were disappeared 2 days after those pictures approved. I called Asia Friendfinder but again they refused to help me to put the pictures back because they don't know how. I said I wanted to talk to "technical support". The operator refused. I insisted and been hold long time, then she put escalate urgent message. The technical support called me back and emailed me too. In the email, I found the Filipino message said I am as "he" and "him" not "she" and "her". Anyway, the technical support found those pictures back a week later.

If you need to use the word "k*ll", you need to add * in the word or use the words such as massacre or carnage or murder instead. The word "st*pid", you need to change to ignorant or moron instead of st*pid. As (10% ), you'd better add a space in between % and ) or it won't go through.

Some gold members provided their phone #s and email address or WeChat ID in their profiles or Asia Friendfinder email and could go through. I know they are scammers but because they are gold members, they can write private contact information to talk outside and then scam you. I am not a paid member, I can't read anyone's profile or initiate an email.

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Pro Democracy vs. Pro Communism
Posted:Aug 14, 2019 2:41 am
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2019 12:26 pm
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Ever since Hong Kong uproar for 2 months because Communist China government wants to tighten its control on HK and want to extradite HK citizens to China for trials, if HK people have different opinions or voice against China.

I really don't like confrontation, I don't like to see the protest became bleeding riots. However, the calmly demonstration won't work when HK citizens feel that their "human rights" have been destroyed. China government wants to intervene the HK judiciary laws. This is violated "two systems policy" as China promised.

A blogger said all the American journalists reported the news in favor of HK people. He said HK people lose the calmness and accuse me that I have vendetta with China. I am very disappointed for an Aussie who has lived in China several years became a Pro Communism. It is sad.

I always feel lucky to be born and raised in Taiwan that I wasn't brainwashed by communist. HK people were lucky that HK was British colony for 99 years. HK and Taiwan have had Democracy education. We weren't been brainwashed by communists. That is why we are not silent lambs, have freedom of speech, religion and press.

Chinese government should apologize to Chinese people for "Cultural Revolution" for a decade and massacred million of intelligent people, the Tiananmen square massacre (the tank man) hundred of protest students died on June 4th about 30 years ago, the Fa-Lum-Gong members disappeared and their human organs (kidneys, liver, heart, ...) have been taken out, the abortion for One-Baby policy (rather than take contraceptive pills to prevent pregnancies). For so many cruelties, and yet Chinese people are silent lambs, nobody protested because they don't have bipartisan system to "checks and balance" their government. The tyranny won't work on HK and Taiwanese people.

When I emigrated to USA at age 24, I got a job as Loan Secretary at a bank. Few days later there was a 70+ old man got a teller job and he could speak English. During lunch time, I asked him why he could come to USA. He told me he was graduated from the best university - Chin-Hua university and was married and had a . Then the Cultural Revolution, he had been locked up in a jail for years, no food but they gave him lots of cigarettes. So, he addicted to cigarettes. He had been beaten hard and been sent to rural area. He was very slim and tall. Communists separated him from his wife and and no mail or news or visiting at jail for years. His tears came down his face when he talked. His parents and younger brother, sister came to USA before the Cultural Revolution, but he was married, so he couldn't apply. Until many years later, he finally connected with his parents and siblings to USA. He smoke very heavily. I heard so many sad stories. The higher scholars, the worse situation, most of them died.

Of course, I don't want to see HK protest became violence. I think "Referendum" in Hong Kong and Taiwan is a must. Let people speak out what they want. It is easy from poor to rich, but difficult from rich to be poor. A pro Democracy can't tolerate pro Communist. Freedom is very important.

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A hysterical Chinese woman confronted with me at a gym
Posted:Aug 10, 2019 12:13 pm
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2024 2:44 pm
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I have joined 24 hour Fitness after my mom died in Sept 20 . I have Aqua Aerobics classes on Monday, Wednesday and Friday.

It is international mixed in women locker room that we can take shower, toilet, lockers, mirrors, ..... A Chinese woman (age 60+) talked with me in Mandarin Chinese. Her voice was loud that caused other ethnicity women turned their heads. I felt that was not a polite gesture to speak Mandarin Chinese in the public. So I said "we'd better speak English to prevent misunderstanding". All the sudden, that Chinese woman started to yell at me loudly "I don't know a word of English, I can't speak English or understand a word of English. You (that is me) speak Chinese, why can't you speak to me in Chinese? Mexican women spoke Spanish, why can't I speak Chinese? What can you do to me? You want to send me back to China?? She started be hysterical and frustrating. She asked another Chinese woman "can you speak English?" That woman said "I don't know a word of English either". Now both of them jumped on me that I wanted them to speak English in public. I walked away and talked to a Vietnamese woman in English, I told that Vietnamese woman that I don't like to make scene in public. Speak Chinese might cause misunderstanding to other ethnicity. This is America, people should speak English in public."

Other Americans, German women all turned their heads and they don't know what was happening but they don't like people shout the language that they don't understand.

Chinese came to USA for years but not speak a word of English. They don't want be assimilated. I came to USA in 1980, worked at a bank, I forced myself to speak English although I have had an accent. I have learned English in Taiwan since 7th . In the same bank, there are many employees from Hong Kong and they speak English because Hong Kong was a colony of England for 99 years.

Both my were born and raised in USA, I have NEVER forced them to speak Chinese or Taiwanese. They know both parents can speak English, so they always speak English.

It is a true story. What do you think these Chinese women spoke Chinese in the public in USA?. Do you think their attitude is right? I am a peaceful person, I don't like violence or bully persons.

p.s. Many Chinese walked the shower room naked. Other race women covered with towels. Why?

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Candle in the Wind by Elton John (Princess Diana tribute)
Posted:Aug 5, 2019 11:51 pm
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2019 10:37 pm
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Goodbye England's rose
May you ever grow in our hearts
You were the grace that placed itself
Where lives were torn apart
You called our country
And you whispered those in pain
Now you belong heaven
And the stars spell your name

And it seems me you lived your life
Like a candle in the wind
Never fading with the sunset
When the rain set in
And your footsteps will always fall here
Along England's greenest hills
Your candle's burned long before
Your legend ever will

Loveliness we've lost
These empty days without your smile
This torch, we'll always carry
For our nation's golden
And even though we try
The truth brings us to tears
All our words cannot express
The joy you brought us through the years

And it seems to me you lived your life
Like a candle in the wind
Never fading with the sunset
When the rain set in
And your footsteps will always fall here
Along England's greenest hills
Your candle's burned out long before
Your legend ever will

Goodbye England's rose
May you ever grow in our hearts
You were the grace that placed yourselves
Where lives were torn apart
Goodbye England's rose
From a country lost without your soul
'll miss the wings of your compassion
More than you will ever know

And it seems me you lived your life
Like a candle in the wind
Never fading with the sunset
When the rain set in
And your footsteps will always fall here
Along England's greenest hills
Your candle's burned long before
Your legend ever will

And your footsteps will always fall here
Along England's greenest hills
Your candle's burned long before
Your legend ever will




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Aussies
Posted:Jul 30, 2019 7:53 am
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2019 10:48 am
138283 Views
What pisses me off about Muslims requiring women to cover up is that Muslim men refuse to develop self-control. They hold women responsible for men's sexual urges such that if men feel turned on, the woman deserves to be r*ped.

Picture 1: At Bondi beach, Muslims request BEACH BAN of "BIKINIS" DURING RAMADAN:

AUSSIES REPLY WITH……….. Picture 2

There we go again ----

bowing to Muslim wishes!!





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Beautiful Creatures - 4
Posted:Jul 25, 2019 5:56 am
Last Updated:Jul 31, 2019 12:21 pm
153535 Views
Six more pictures to share.







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Beautiful Creatures - 3
Posted:Jul 25, 2019 5:40 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2019 9:15 pm
134198 Views
Nine more pictures.










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Beautiful Creatures - 2
Posted:Jul 24, 2019 5:40 pm
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2019 10:46 am
137261 Views
Is picture 10 a marsupial animal or a baby hiding in between mother's legs?











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Beautiful Creatures - 1
Posted:Jul 24, 2019 3:36 pm
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2019 10:49 am
155765 Views
Sharing you with those beautiful creatures pictures that sent from my PhD physicist. Hope you will enjoy them.










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Neil Armstrong - The first man on the Moon on July 20, 1969
Posted:Jul 20, 2019 4:18 am
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2019 12:30 am
134853 Views
On July 20, 1969 Apollo landed on the Moon. Neil Armstrong was the first man to set foot on the Moon and he said that famous quote "One Small Step For Man, One Giant Leap for Mankind". It is 50 years anniversary today.

I was a lived in Taiwan, I watched the TV in Taiwan and shouted to my grandpa (my mom's father who lived with us) " , grandpa , this is the historic moment that man landed on the Moon". "That American astronaut stepped on the Moon." My grandpa said "it is a TV program, don't believe it". "How can man go to the Moon?" "How's that possible?". I was so excited but my grandpa just glanced the TV for a while and told me it was a fake news. He didn't believe it. Neil Armstrong became a hero in the world. One restaurant owner in Taiwan changed his restaurant name to be 阿姆斯壯 "Armstrong".

My PhD physicist friend has sent me many links about this Apollo landed on the Moon lately. He is very enthusiastic about NASA. He always sent many links or news regarding NASA went to the Mars too.



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