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Father of My I do not know how many times I get emails from total strangers offering to be the father of my . My goodness, they do not even read my profile. I am only looking for friends to chat with, not romance. So what makes these individuals think that I want them to use me to gratify their twisted needs? Thank goodness for email screening. Unless they are in my network, their email now goes straight to the filtered box where I do a mass delete once a week. VICKY Wondering how many people there are in Asia Friendfinder who can't read my profile properly. |
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9/1/2008 11:30 pm |
Well, all I can is that there are fewer and fewer people posting in English so I'm just tossing out a few ideas for you people to comment on. I mean, afterall, nothing we say or do here is going to change the world we live in, right?
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8/29/2008 8:53 pm |
the greatest poet of all times, Arthur Rimbaud, stopped writing at age 18 by who's statistic  ( just ribbing you)
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8/29/2008 7:42 pm |
.i'm not trying to patronise vicky bcos she is way above my league I apologize if I wacked you... my point was to say.. Men, stop low rating yourself.. and I'd like to say to you.. NEVER feel any woman is out of your league, they are simply a human being who is female, look change with age, body changes with age.. and looks never made any woman a good lover, nor a good person, it only presents them as appealing to the eye.. character, and integrity is what matters... and evidently, you have given character and integrity some thoughts,deeply, and I'd only say to you, Respect and appreciate that which is you... and smile freely at whom you choose, and have no reservation about whom you like... you are as much human as anyone.. and life gives you the gift of living daily.. there are guys divorcing pretty to look at women everyday, and there are guys that meet them, and once they get to know some of them can't stand to be around them for 5 minutes.. and education is good, everyone should get all they can, but it is not the measure of the character of a person.. look at the Uni-bomber, Ted whom ever his name was, he had plenty education but was a nut case.. so, the point I'm saying is simple.. give yourself credit for the person you are... we are very adapatable beings. I gather that you are one who cares, or you would not take to time to express your thoughts.... but I just personally hate to see you not give yourself the credit you deserve... as an individual.. As to chasing.. truly chasing is a very obscure position one can put themselves in... and if love is mutual, or desire is mutual, there's no need to chase.. that does not mean, don't assert your position, and give the effort to assure that your position is asserted... but if someone would run another around in a circle and such. and make them chase.. it more than likely will end up not very good for the one doing the chasing.. If I want a woman, I'm persistent, to a point, and that point is until I know that I've communicated myself well.. and in as much detail as I desire to engage... but at a point, the woman has to show something, or it turns into a game.. that is not suitable for either to play.. I'd not expect to say hello and instantly it suppose to be magic.. I'm not that foolish.. but I do talk very straight about what I like, and for me personally, I prefer a woman, who is not making a game out of what she wants.. that's what makes a difference. and one need to be able to see game when the game is engaged,... if they have a mutual mentality they will do a little dance and jump rope with each other, that's fine... as long as both of them are playing with the same objective.. and that's to make it fun in what they engage... not where one is playing the other for a fool, or to see how much of a sucker or how many loops they will jump through.. that's not respecting, that's disrespecting.. what they have no intent to respect. Again, I apologize to you if you felt slammed..
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8/28/2008 9:22 pm |
why would you categorize those mens expression as such.. as if to say she is better then them... they don't know her and she don't know them... as she said it was people.. making proposals of sorts... it does not mean the guy is lessor of value as a person than she is, nor that she is some princess above them.. patronizing a woman in such ways is very tacky... and is some of the same reason that feed into some women thinking such low thought of men.. As a man any man.. Respect yourself as a man and person and stop succumbing to appeasement modes, seeking validation.. Man does not need woman to validate him as being a man.. the whole point between male and female is "sharing"... goodness .. it's time for men to stop with such stuff. they got women sending men mails, talking about marry them, before they even know the guys name or the name of the city he lives in, or any simple matter.. I don't get the men, who think they got to win a woman, that's absurd, either she likes him for her own reasons or she don't... men play a lot of suck up games, and time always find him struggling to try to regain his sense of self... when he realizes that he gave it over to her.. for validation... and that also gives her the power to invalidate him.. and then he wants to kick her ass... because he needs her to give him back his sense of self, he was foolish enough to throw away... hoping for her to validate it.. that's why half the women blow the idiots of, like the chump they make of themselves... so .. it is not about some "long shot" with any man, who feels himself a man, by any woman he approaches.. why would any man demean himself to such a degree, to consider some woman a long shot.. that's the same as a man saying he ain't crap... and will she validate him. chasing anyone is never a good thing for anyone ... man or woman..
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8/28/2008 6:22 pm |
I'm sure you will give him your attentions of waiting for what you desire, and there not reason for any to challenge that.. as desire is each individuals to direct it as they choose.. and you have chosen your direction of focus... and that's all to it. as to those who want something different than what you want... then simplicity is, that the wants don't match... As to this internet exchange forum.. it's just subject material.. and the exchanging of ideas and thoughts... some of us will enjoy it for that, and some of us won't... I can't speak for others.. but I share in these blogs that are part of the blog site, because I enjoy engaging subject matter.. and, from time to time, it becomes interactively expressive. but even when it's not.. I still share what I have of thoughts about what subjects that are posted.
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8/28/2008 4:38 pm |
maybe it's not their inability to read.. maybe it's their wondering of what the heck are you waiting on, and what is your obsessive dominance of not wanting relationships.. the only way you may know what they are talking about, is to talk to them... but assuming on either part, yours or theirs.. is not reaching any nature of anything... but a stand off. But there is someone I'm interested in and I hope he comes back from the Afghan soon. In the meantime, the onces who express themselves are the ones I'm most interested in. Most men can't carry on a good conversation cause all they are thinking about is taking care of their carnal needs. VICKY being a good little nun
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8/28/2008 4:15 pm |
maybe it's not their inability to read.. maybe it's their wondering of what the heck are you waiting on, and what is your obsessive dominance of not wanting relationships.. the only way you may know what they are talking about, is to talk to them... but assuming on either part, yours or theirs.. is not reaching any nature of anything... but a stand off.
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