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touch213 70M
6990 posts
1/15/2008 8:30 am
making relationships


first .. "DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT"

most importantly do you know that want can and will change over time, and are you prepared to be and do so.. "nothing remains the same"..

so if you can't communicate what you want, and don't continue to communicate about how those wants change... you will find yourself not getting what you want.. and not doing what you want.. and there will be conflicts becase the same will be happening with the other person.

so .. second:
Can you communicate your wants ?

now are you prepared that things don't always turn out as we specifically want.. so .. are you adaptable, can you make adjustments, can you make sacrifices and are you willing to give beyond what you expect to give in a given situation, or random situation... you may need to prepare to consider that element.. so it's not a surprise to you when it comes to such choices..

and everything you think of for yourself, you have to realize other can think of things for themselves.. can you deal with that..

"because it's not all about you"..

now ... "do you have an idea of what you want"...

may be a good start.. because knowing what you want.. may be something that you come to know moreso, when you get it.. ????

usamariyana
(you li)
71F

1/15/2008 11:44 pm

Yes,I will....


victorylee0516
(victoria lee)
42F

1/16/2008 12:14 pm

Oh, I know exactly what I want and willing to overlook minor things if it still the right package. But I not gonna let feelings of moment cause me to losing control.


touch213 70M

1/16/2008 1:12 pm

right on... I can too digest the trill a minute pleasures, without loosing focus on what's real..