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1ClassyLady 68F
3120 posts
1/21/2024 11:33 am
An outrageous profile on AFF.

I can't read anyone's profile on AFF. However, if I put my computer mouse over a person's picture, I can briefly read that person's beginning profile. About a month ago, an arrogant man read my profile and he is 1 yr younger and distance is near, so I put mouse over and read his profile beginning sentence. He is a Gold member on AFF.

His profile says "I am married but wife and I are no longer intimate. Looking for a FWB relationship, either short or long to fit my needs..... (FWB means Friend with Benefits.)
OMG, what does he think he is?? A king or an emperor??? He can summon a moron woman to be his toy or slave, for his pleasure and he decides for how short or long that fits his needs. Shame on him. He thinks that all women on Asia Friendfinder are idiots??? He can continue to stay in his "monogamous life" and get sexual desire to the woman he chooses.

At that time, I was concentrating on Taiwan's election. But when he looked my profile the 2nd time, I immediately went on "My Account", "Blocked member", and blocked "View my profile". But he read my profile the 3rd time, so I went on "Blocked member" to block "Magazine/Blog comments", "Sending emails/flirts", "Search/Browse results", "Appearing in chat/IMc", "Sending invites", "Writing testimonials". I blocked everything to prevent him to read my profile.

The reason I'd like to go on Asia Friendfinder is because Asia Friendfinder has "Blogs" to express my opinions. I don't go on Face Book, or any other social media. Asia Friendfinder is the only place that provides blogs for people who is looking for suitable friends. As you may know, I like to "Travel", "Invest on real estate and stock market" , "Music", "Political current news". I am a retired Calif licensed pharmacist, so sometimes I provided medical news. I am looking for a friend who have "common value" with me and share the opinions with me on a "common ground".

I have had a best friend (Caucasian male, bank CEO ) for 16.5 yrs from "Yahoo Personals" in May 2006. Unfortunately, he passed away on "Heart disease" in January 2022. Life has to go on. I hope I can find another friend who has common value.
The reason I posted this blog is to warn any idiot Asian woman to contact this "presumptuous" Caucasian man who provides "Friend with Benefits" and she got NOTHING. Be careful, scammers are not only look for money but also for free sxx.

Honesty is the best policy.

1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
1/21/2024 10:23 pm

I am very cautious to choose a companion. Since Nov 1996 I was a "Sugar Mom" for a Taiwanese dentist whom I provided free "Green Card", "Social security #", "US citizenship" and helped him to pass his Calif dentist license. I provided him free meals, free traveling, free mortgage, free furniture, free housework, free insurance premium, free cars, .... I regret gave him an easy life for 17.5 yrs. So, I don't want to make same mistake twice. I became very picky and precautious 警惕的;戒備的.

Fortunately, I met a Caucasian banker CEO since late May 2006. He had good knowledge on investments. He liked the same Music, Political view, Religion, Current events, Travel, .... On the 3rd date in April 2007, he told me that he will go to China for 10 days. To my surprise, he emailed me from a coffee shop in Shanghai (at that time, WiFi was not popular). I realized he liked me. When he returned, he told me to sell real estate because the prices were too high (George W. Bush asked banks to lending loans to no credit check, no down-payment. I asked my mom to sell her condo for 4 times high than purchased price. Then real estate crashed in 2008. He emailed me when I was in China in May 2008 for 8 day/6 nights. The sub-prime real estate market downwards from late 2008- 2011. There were signs said "Foreclosure house, bank own, for sale) on every street. I went back to Taiwan for 32 days in Feb 2011 to sell my family vacant house for 31 yrs. I wired the sold proceeds back from Taiwan to my mom account in the USA in Feb 2011. BTW, Japan had a 8.9 earthquake/ Tsunami on 3-11-2011. I was in Japan in late January 2011 for a 5 days/4 nights trip to avoid Taiwan's hotel raised 3 times price during Chinese New Year celebration (banks, escrow, all closed). I escaped Japan's earthquake for 20+ days when I returned to the USA.

I asked the banker friend how to invest about $850K of my mom's money in summer of 2011. He gave me free advice "buy Las Vegas properties" because Vegas casinos open 24/7, 365 days. Casinos need 3 shift employees who need to rent a place. I went to Vegas to buy 5 properties in Sept - Nov 2011 that "Foreclosed" and a condo in Arcadia, CA and a house in Victorville, CA. I have rented those properties and managed by realtor management companies. My mom passed away in Sept 2013 and I inherited her wealth. Now, the properties became 3 times high. I sold 3 properties in Vegas and 1 condo in Arcadia, CA. Transferred to my stock account (changed from margin to cash account). I like Taiwanese-American CEO's, so I have invested on TSM, AMD & NVDA. Recently I sold NVDA with 5 times high price. My NVDA cost price is $109.21 and its price is $595. I only have 2 shares of NVDA left. I took profits and waiting for another chance.

I and my banker friend were "Platonic friendship" lasted for 16.5 yrs until his death. He went to China alone in 2007, I went to China in 2008 with a travel agency. He went to Australia in 2013 alone, I went to Australia and New Zealand in 2015 with travel agency. He went to Colorado state to ski with his brother almost every year, but I can't ski. He had joined Los Angeles Marathon race in March for 3 consecutive year until his doctor advised him not to join Marathon (his heart problem). I miss him dearly. I am looking for someone just like him.

Honesty is the best policy.

1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
1/21/2024 8:56 pm

Respect women, don't use idiot women to reach his sexx desires.

If he wants to keep his "Monogamy" relationship with his wife, so be it. Otherwise, file divorce to separate. Don't play games. Don't cheat his wife and at same time to have extramarital relationship by posting an outrageous profile to cheat another woman (or women) on AFF.

Honesty is the best policy.