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sparrowhawk9 64M
184 posts
8/28/2020 6:28 am
Oscar Wilde quote

“It is only shallow people who do not judge by appearances.”


sparrowhawk9 64M

9/2/2020 7:27 am

The fact is, looks matter. More precisely, presentation matters. It is the starting people for everyone trying to assess new information. Humans are pattern matching creatures, so we quickly try to match new events to known events. As soon as one is found, then that becomes the starting point. As Oscar Wilde joked, “It is only shallow people who do not judge by appearances.” In this case, the starting point is one that elicits sympathy and compassion from most people.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
9/5/2020 5:34 pm

Looks do attract the attention that can create potential to interact...
what has bonded many people in when they work together, share together, mutually interact on project of situation they come to know more of each other, and many who may not be so enticing from first glance, have become beautiful in another dimension within each other views of the other....

People are always more fragile within the heart than they appear from the external imagery or even the public personality persona. .