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beyondfantasy3 113M
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5/25/2012 7:04 am

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I like to be right and I will debate the point to try to get you to see why. If however in the course of the debate, you demonstrate a better position or can show why I may be wrong, I am quite happy to accept that. That does not mean that I am a pushover

Good point and I agree.

as to the thought about balance.. 60-40 makes 100, 30-70 makes 100 and 50-50 makes 100 and in some cases 90-10 or 10-90 each respectively makes 100.. so when people say balance, there will always be the reciprocation of one giving more than the others, but as long as it comes out to 100 which benefits both of them, then that is what works..

Many of our problem(s) today, is we want instant 50-50, based on what we 'expect', without being satisfied with what we can give and share.. we are looking too quickly for instant reciprocation.
the sad part is we have a pre-determined expectations as to what should be reciprocate and how it should be reciporicated and then we want to demand when it should be reciporicated.