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你向人借过钱吗？ You are borrowing money from others? 一个借钱故事看穿你的人际关系（A） A borrow story through your relationships 上个月，我的一个朋友某某因为生意上出了点意外，急需要一笔钱，当他打电话给我时，我感觉有一点奇怪，因为我们的关系仅仅只限于一般朋友，故此，就有了一点点犹豫。我说：一会儿我给你电话吧。 Last month, one of my friends because of a business so unexpected, urgent need money, when he called me, I feel a little strange, because our relationship only limited to friends, therefore, there is a little bit of hesitation. I said: I'll give you the phone. 我考虑了十分钟，决定把这钱借给他。 I consider ten minutes, decided to lend him the money. 上个星期，他把钱还给了我，之后请我喝茶。 Last week, he returned the money to me, please I drink tea. 他说：你答应借钱给我还真出乎我的意料之外！ He said: you agreed to lend me the money is really beyond my contrary to expectation! 我问：为什么？ I asked: why? 他回答：打你电话之前我已经打过9通电话，你是第10个。当你说“一会儿给你电话”时，我认为我需要打第11通电话了。我是按照亲疏关系打的这10通 电话，越打到后面越没有信心，所以，打你电话已经是死马当成活马医的心态了。 He answered: before calling you. I have already played 9 phone calls, you are the tenth. When you say "a moment to call you", I think I need to call eleventh call. I was in accordance with the relationship between this 10 dozen telephone, playing to the back and more have no confidence, so, call you already live medicine as a dead mentality. 之后，就这个话题我们谈论了许多，他总结性地说了一句话：如果不是这次借钱，我还以为我有很多朋友，现在我才明白，原来我是这么孤独。 Then, on this topic we talked a lot, he concluded that the sentence: if not for the money, I thought I have many friends, now I know, I was so lonely. 过后的几天我都在想这件事，然后，我决定了解一下自己到底是否也如我那个朋友一样那么孤独。在做这件事之前，我把想法打电话告诉了他，他笑了：我劝你还是别做这种游戏，这会让你感觉从天堂落入了地狱！ After a few days I think of this thing, then, I decided to see what whether as my friends so lonely. Before doing this thing, I think to call and tell him, he smiled: I advise you not to do this kind of game, this will make you feel fall into hell from heaven! 我把现在身边自认为的好朋友的名字挑了出来，这些人都在本地，外地的暂 不列入，他们和我从来没有金钱上的借贷关系，也和我的工作没有任何牵连，我们经常在一起，要不吃饭，要不喝茶，要不泡酒吧，相互之间我帮他们的一点小忙的时候居多，属于纯粹意义上的朋友，有9个人，而且他们的经济实力借个几千块肯定是没很大的问题的。 I now think of good friends pick out, these people are local, not included in the field, they and I never money lending relationship, nor any involved in my work, don't we often eat together, drink, or tea, or pub, mutual I help a little busy most of the time they, belonging to the pure sense of the friends, there are 9 individuals, and their economic strength through thousands of block is certainly no big problem. 我给他们每人发了一条内容差不多的短信： I gave each of them made a similar message content: “我现在遇到点麻烦，需要问你借X千块钱，一个月之内归还。如行的话给我电话，不行就发个信息吧，也不要紧，我等你答复。” "I had some trouble now, need to borrow your X thousand dollars, returned within a month. As you give me a call, you can send a message, it does not matter, I wait for you reply." 我是昨天下午发的，晚饭时间未到，收到了7条信息，2通电话。信息基本回的 都很快，全没超过一个小时，其中一通电话是信息发出后20分钟左右来的，还有一通是信息发出后2个半小时左右打进来的 Yesterday afternoon I was sent, not to the dinner time, received 7 messages, 2 phone calls. Basic information back soon, no more than one hour, which is a phone call about 20 minutes after the issue of information, there is a pass is 2.5 hours after the issue of the incoming information about 7条信息内容如下: 7 pieces of information are as follows: （1）陈：真对不起！我目前有点困难，真的，要不然你的事情肯定没话说的，你问问YYY吧，不好意思！ (1) Chen: I'm really sorry! I am currently a bit difficult, really, or things you must not say, you ask YYY, feel shy! （2）乔：XX，上个星期我小舅子刚问我借了1万，下个月还有点可能，真对不起！ Joe: (2) XX, last week I just ask my brother-in-law borrowed 10000, next month there may be, I'm really sorry! （3）唐：这段时间我自己都很困难，前一段打麻将输了好多钱，XX，不好意思，我要情况好的话绝对没问题的。 (3) Tang: this time I was difficult, for a period of time playing mahjong lost a lot of money, XX, feel shy, I'm good words absolutely no problem. （4）王：真不好意思了，我的钱都在股票里，对不起！ （5）陈：XX，你怎么会要借钱哦，我昨天才借给 人家1万，是放息的，你又不早说，不好意思，你再想想别的办法咯。 (4) king: really feel shy, all my money in the stock market, I'm sorry! Chen (5): XX, why do you want to borrow money Oh, 10000 people just lend me yesterday, is the loan, you say not early, feel shy, you'll think of something else. （6）陆：对不起，最近我的股票都套牢了，手里没有现金，不好意思呵！ (6) land: sorry, I recently stock is secure, didn't have any cash, feel shy! （7）章：XX，我儿子开学就要转到某某的YY学校去，开学就要交5千，真的没办法帮你，请原谅！ (7) chapter: XX, my begins to go to a YY school, school will be over 5000, I can't help you, please forgive me! |
