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I knew many man here traveling to different country to find their wife rather than finding it online, the local agencies will set up blind date to meet woman face to face so the possibility is higher so as the cost. .
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When people seek out mates.... in different cities, or for that matter different communities in the same city, or other countries.... or even two blocks away, it still means... there has to be a "learning of the other". We live today in a world that is "extremely impatient" and of a "very short attention span". People want "Instant satisfactions".... The oddity in society today is, people "kill" with high frequency for who knows what are their reasons. A recent news article of a guy, who was living with his girlfriends parents in their home. He was asked to leave... what ever took place, he ended up killing the girlfriend, her brother and her father, but first he had killed his own parents. people might need to learn more about people's ideas they hold as if "they own or the person is their possession, and some have mindset that if they can't have the person on their terms, then they will attack, destroy and even kill, some go as far as this kill who not only kills the girlfriend, but here father and brother. I'd say, be careful to learn at what levels people become "desperate"!!! Yes, some spin the game for money, but others are desperate for "validation", in both cases it implies that people are not able to be on balance by their own self and thus live with the demeanor as if they "prey" upon others for many reasons by many means. I don't know any sure fire means to find out the truths of self and another, other than... pay attention to the day to day character elements and learn what is the persons concept of integrity. A quick few minutes of "erotic" may not be worth the emotional pain and the possibility of unknown violence, or even the scam designed to delude and financially fleece another. Maybe people should leave the "money entanglement" our of it, and don't advertise that you have money if you have it. the same game can happen in the circles of people where they mutually have money because they have the potential to scam each other too. I don't know about the "buy a mate" , "buy a date".... programs .... because one still has to "get to know whom they are dealing with as an individual. The crazy thing is there have been people who got married with a plot to dispose of the mate as soon as they think the "insurance" will pay off. Why do we think because we get highly infatuated with someone, that we no longer have to give attention to the actual character of the person. If we go out with a game plan, we might end up being the one gamed, so it still comes back to the importance of learning each other.... that takes time and communication and attention to what the character presents. Not just the public persona of personality, but the "elements" of character. When people tell you what they will do to others, in circumstances and situations... one might have to wonder if they will do the same to you, if the think such circumstances and situations involve you and them???? This just might tell something about what is the character of the person. No one escapes the works that love brings into building love.... but... so many expect it to happen like some magic wand and finger snap instantly makes it fit the dreams and ideals. There just might be more truth to why patience is a virture
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Yes, your points are valid.... yet, people have a high volume of post on here over a span of time about "Scams" and "Scammers". I personally don't have encounters with scammers - I've been on here a very long time
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