笑中受益 Laugh to benefit
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Posted:Nov 30, 2013 1:38 am
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世界上唯一不用努力就能往上涨的只有年龄！
The only thing in the world is not effort to rise only age!
骑白马的不一定是王子，他可能是唐僧；带翅膀的也不一定是天使，他可能是鸟人
The is not necessarily the prince, he may be Tang Seng; the belt wing not necessarily is an angel, he may be the bird
人生就像高压锅，压力太大的时候自己就熟了。
Life is like a pressure cooker, when too much pressure in their own familiar.
珍惜生活——上帝还让你活着，就肯定有他的安排。
Cherish life -- God also let you live, he must have his schedule.
机会如雨点般的向我打来,但我却一 一躲过。
Opportunities such as the rain came at me, but I have one one escape.
那些曾经泼过我冷水的人，我一定会烧开了还给你们。
Those who have poured cold water over my people, I will boil back to you.
曾以为我想要的是职业，结果发现我只是想要工资。
I thought I wanted a occupation, turns out I just want to pay.
所谓事业，就是今天干了明天还想干；所谓职业，就是今天干了明天还得干
The business is doing today, tomorrow still want to do; the so-called occupation is doing today, tomorrow have to do
成绩不突出，事业不突出，腰间盘突出。
Performance is not outstanding, the career is not prominent, lumbar disc herniation.
有钱的时候败家，没钱的时候拜神。
When money, black sheep, have no money when to worship.
所谓摇号，就是遥遥无期地耗着
The so-called Yaohao, is indefinitely consumption
别站在你的角度看我，我怕你看不懂。
Don't stand on your point of view, I am afraid you cannot read.
把自己过得像国王，你才能吸引王后。
Treat yourself as a king, you can attract the queen.
什么都舍不得放弃的人，增加的不是回忆，只是更多的包袱而已。
What are reluctant to abandon the people, not increasing the memories, only more burden.
穷则独善其身，富则妻妾成群。
The poor are spared, the rich wives and concubines.
你不能决定太阳几点升起，但可以决定自己几点起床。
You can't decide the sun rises, but can decide when to get up in the morning.
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为什么美国儿童的阅读量是中国儿童的六倍？ Why the amount of reading USA is six times the Chinese childr
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Posted:Nov 29, 2013 5:10 pm
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感到不解吗？但这是事实！
Confused? But this is a fact!
美国伊利诺大学阅读研究中心主任里查德.安德森教授主要从事儿童阅读研究，他曾深入地研究了中国儿童的课外阅读并与美国的儿童阅读做了比较，得出了如下结论：一个中国普通家庭和一个美国普通家庭为孩子提供阅读材料的经济能力大体相当，但是美国儿童的阅读量却是中国儿童的六倍。
The University of Illinois at America Reading Research Center Director Richard Anderson Professor, engaged in the research of 's reading, he had an in-depth study of the China 's extracurricular reading and America reading have been compared, and draw a conclusion as follows: a Chinese ordinary families and a USA ordinary families provide with reading material economic capacity of roughly the same however, American 's reading is Chinese six times.
产生如此巨大差异的原因何在呢？
So why the difference?
首先，安德森教授认为主要原因在于中国父母给孩子选择的课外读物过于“超前”了。
First, Professor Anderson thinks that the main reason is that China parents give choose extra-curricular books too "advance".
在中国，适合二至八岁的儿童阅读的课外书籍数量本来就比美国少，而父母给孩子选择的课外阅读材料多是《唐诗三百首》及一些情节复杂的故事，大多数书籍的内容超过了孩子的认知水平，孩子难以流畅理解故事的内容，感受不到阅读的乐趣，所以花在阅读上的时间少，阅读量也就小了。
In Chinese, suitable for the number of books read two to eight year old was less than USA, while parents give extracurricular reading material selection are the "Three Hundred Tang Poems" and some complicated story, most of the contents of the book more than the cognitive level of the , the is difficult to smooth understand the story, feel not fun to read, so spend less time in reading, reading quantity is small.
儿童读物应该分为教师指导孩子学习的书籍和专门给孩子阅读的书籍两种，也就是分为“精读”的书和“泛读”的书，中国孩子严重缺乏泛读读物。父母给孩子买的课外读物基本都属于精读类。中国孩子在幼儿园和小学里学课文就是“精读”的方式，课外读物还要“精读”，倒尽了他们的胃口。没有兴趣，阅读量自然就上不去。
's books should be divided into teachers guide the learning books and dedicated to the reading books two kinds, is divided into "intensive reading" and "extensive reading" the book of books, China serious lack of reading books. Parents give their to buy extracurricular readings are the basic intensive reading class. China text in kindergarten and primary school in science is the "intensive" way, the extracurricular books to "intensive", but as far as their appetite. No interest, the amount of reading is not to go.
分析中国父母给孩子选择“精读”读物的原因，在于中国父母比较注重阅读的短期效果，希望孩子读了一本书之后，就能牢牢掌握它的中心思想和深远意义，理解它的遣词造句、描写手法和意境，在父母眼里，孩子读完一本书都要说出个子午卯酉来才算没有白读，孩子能把看过的东西背下来最好，如果孩子最终能把读过的东西运用到写作文上，提高作文水平才算达到了阅读的终极目的。
Analysis Chinese parents give choose "intensive reading" books, is China parents pay more attention to short-term effectiveness of reading, want the to read a book, can firmly grasp the central idea and its significance, understand its wording and phrasing, style and conception, in the eyes of parents, read a book have to say this phenomenon is prime to will not read, the can put things back down the best, if the can read it in writing, improve the level of writing is to achieve the ultimate goal of reading.
实际上，阅读本身对人的影响是长远的、潜移默化的，不是读了几本书或者背了几本书就可以显现出来的，需要一个从量变到质变的过程。在孩子小时候，培养他们的读书兴趣和习惯，好比盖房子打地基，一时还看不出来房子的样子，但是地基打好了，后面想怎么盖就怎么盖。地基打不好，后面盖楼用的砖瓦再漂亮、昂贵都没有用。
In fact, the effects of reading itself on people is long, influence character by environment, not to read a few books or back a few books can be shown, the need for a process from quantitative change to qualitative change. In young , cultivation of reading interest and habit of them, like the cover of the foundation of the house, a moment also can not see the house looks, but the foundations, behind how to build on what cover. Foundation is not good, behind the levy with bricks and tiles again beautiful, expensive and are not used.
学龄前和小学低年级是培养孩子读书习惯的关键时期，但是这一阶段的孩子认知水平和理解消化能力都不强，所以儿童阅读书籍的内容应当简单化、适合孩子口语表达，要多选择一些与他们生活相关的趣味短文和可供孩子们相互谈论的简单故事，才有利于引起他们的阅读兴趣。
Preschool and primary school lower grade is the key period to cultivate the 's reading habits, but this stage cognition and understanding of the digestive ability is not strong, so the reading books content should be simple, suitable for oral expression, to choose some relevant to them interesting essays and simple story for talking to each other, is conducive to arouse their interest in reading.
最简单的办法就是父母领孩子到图书馆、书店去，让孩子自己选择要看的书，不要对他们的阅读书目指手画脚，不要以自己的标准为孩子做选择，要知道，他们只有喜欢一本书才会看得进去。
The easiest way is to parents brought the to the library, bookstore, let the choose to read the book, don't backseat driver for reading them, not by their own standards for to do, you know, they only like a book will look into.
其次，安德森教授认为中国孩子阅读量比美国孩子小，还和中国父母陪孩子读书的时间上比美国父母少有关。
Secondly, Professor Anderson believes that Chinese reading than America small , and China parents with of reading time than America parents less.
美国父母在孩子很小的时候，就会每天抽时间给孩子读书，直至孩子上学了，依然会保持每晚睡觉前给孩子读书的习惯。而中国父母在孩子小的时候更多的是花时间在教孩子认字上，而不是读书。孩子上学以后，很多中国父母肯花时间陪孩子写作业，却不肯花时间陪孩子读书，这其实是本末倒置了。孩子不完成作业老师会批评，他自己知道厉害关系，即使家长不陪不督促，他也要完成的，父母如果把功夫下在这儿，孩子有了依赖心，把写作业变成给父母老师写的了，慢慢地失去了对学习的兴趣不说，自己的事情自己负责的精神也难以培养起来。
America parents when the were young, will every time to read to their , and the go to school, still can maintain every night before bed to give the habit of reading. And Chinese parents of small when more is spent time in teaching to read, rather than reading. The go to school, many parents are willing to spend time with the Chinese homework, but refused to take the time to accompany their to school, this is actually have the order reversed. do not complete homework the teacher will criticize, he knows the stakes, even if the parents do not accompany don't urge, he would finish, if parents put the effort in here, have to rely on heart, write operations to the parents and teachers to write, gradually lost interest in learning not to say, oneself myself responsible spirit to develop.
孩子上学以后，看书的时间骤减，同时电视与电脑游戏也在争夺课后的时间，这一阶段读书习惯最容易被打破。所以在这一时期父母要把功夫花在陪孩子读书上，让孩子读书的兴趣和习惯能够保持下去。
The go to school, read a Book Time sharply, at the same time, TV and computer games are also competing for after-school time, this stage is most likely to break the habit of reading. So the parents during this period to devote to accompany their to school, let the reading interest and habit to keep it.
中国父母可以向美国父母借鉴，每天在睡觉前抽出半小时的时间读书给孩子听，既密切了和孩子的关系，也容易坚持下去。
Chinese parents can learn from America parents, every spare half an hour to read the book and listen to the in bed, relationship is close and the , also easy to stick to it.
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【现实在告戒】 [warning] reality in
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Posted:Nov 28, 2013 3:09 am
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33、教父经典台词：
33, the godfather classic lines:
1）不要让别人知道你的想法；
1) don't let others know what you think;
2）当你说不时，你要使不听上去象是一样好听；
2) when you say from time to time, you make do not sound like the same;
3）让朋友低估你的优点，让敌人高估你的缺点；
3) to be close to your friend, let the enemy overestimate your weaknesses;
4）痛苦不象死亡那样无可挽回；
4) the pain does not like death so irreparable;
5）如果你没有时间和家人在一起，你就永远无法成为真正的男人；
5) if you don't have time to spend with the family, you can never be a real man;
6）永远不要恨你的敌人 ，因为这会影响你的判断力。
6) don't hate your enemy, it affects your judgement.
34、觉得自己做得到和做不到，其实只在一念之间。自己要先看得起自己，别人才会看得起你。一切伟大的行动和思想，都有一个微不足道的开始。有理想在的地方，地狱就是天堂；有希望在的地方，痛苦也成欢乐。乐观者在困难中看到机会；悲观者在机会中看到苦难。理想的路总是为有信心的人预备着----李嘉诚。
34, feel that they can and can't do, in fact, only between a read. Respect yourself, others will respect you. All the great action and thought, there is a not worth mentioning start. There is an ideal place, hell is heaven; the place which hope is in, the pain has become a joy. An optimist sees the opportunity in trouble; the pessimist sees the disaster in the opportunity. The ideal way is always prepared for the confidence ---- Li Jiacheng.
35、女名叫安-德纳姆,生在美国堪萨斯。18岁的安在异族通婚非法的年代嫁给了一个非洲黑人留学生。后来，安和丈夫离婚成了单身母亲，她靠食品优惠券生活，是美国医保系统受害者，在重病时恳求保险公司赔付。然而她的孩子，图片里装扮成海盗的小孩，日后成了美利坚合众国第44任总统，巴拉克------奥巴马。《不要因为出身而看不起任何人！》
35, woman named Ann Denham, born in Kansas America. The 18 year old ANN in intermarriage illegal's married a Africa black students. Later, Ann and her husband divorce became a single mother, she is living on food coupons, America victims in serious illness medical insurance system, the insurance company to pay for. However, her , the picture of dress up as pirates, later became the forty-fourth United States President, Barack, Obama. "Don't look down on anyone who! "
36、阿米尔汗，8岁时出演一部轰动印度的电影，是公认的童星，长大后却一心打网球并获得过网球冠军。21岁爱上邻居家女孩，由于宗教原因两人决定私奔，现在过着幸福美满的生活。他是演员/制片人/导演。81届奥斯卡最佳影片《贫民窟的百万富翁》就是他担当的制片，2009年一部《三个白痴》震惊全球，他45岁。《你相信坚持的力量么？》
36, Amirkhan, 8 years old in a sensational India movie, is recognized as the grew up together, playing tennis and won the tennis champion. The 21 year old love the neighbor girl, for religious reasons two people decide to elope, now live a happy life. He is the actor / Producer / director. The 81 Oscar for best film "Slumdog Millionaire" is he served as producer, in 2009 a "three idiot" shocked the world, he is 45 years old. "Do you believe in the power of persistence? "
37、陈佩斯，因为央视出版他的小品而不给钱，较真打官司，遂被彻底封杀。此后陈消失，陈夫妇上山种树，脸朝黄土背朝天，两年获利30万。陈佩斯哭了，还想再演戏，可依旧被封杀，就砸30万改演话剧，第一部舞台喜剧《托儿》，在全国各地连续演出达120场，票房近4000万元，创造了当今话剧界无法超越的神话。《我就想说一句话：是金子在哪都发光••••••》
In 37, Chen Peisi published his essay, because CCTV without money, hard court, was completely blocked. After Chen disappeared, Chen couple went up into the mountain trees, yellow face back into the air, two years 300000 of profits. Chen Peisi cried, also want to act, can still be banned, hit 300000 to play, the first stage comedy " care", in all parts of the country for about 120 shows at the box office, nearly 40000000 yuan, created the current drama circles unsurpassable myth. "I just want to say one sentence: where is the gold will shine • • •"
38、她，37岁，癌症晚期。他，42岁，为筹钱给她治病，盗窃一辆电动自行车而入狱，刑期4年。2010年11月12日，他两人在监狱里举行了简单的婚礼，但这场童话般的婚礼，却让在场的数百位嘉宾感动得潸然泪下。偷辆电动车刑期4年，李刚儿子撞死人才3年。无语！一条人命还不如架电动单车。《生活在这个让人苦恼的社会••••••》
38, 37 years old, she, with advanced cancer. He, 42 years old, to raise money for her medical treatment, the theft of a bike served 4 years in prison. In November 12, 2010 two, he held a simple wedding in prison, but this fairy tale wedding, but let the presence of hundreds of guests moved to tears trickling down one's cheeks. Steal electric car sentence of 4 years, Li Gang killed talents 3 years. Speechless! A life is not an electric bicycle. "Living in this vexing social • • •"
39、天下只有两种人。比如一串葡萄到手，一种人挑最好的先吃，另一种人把最好的留到最后吃。照例第一种人应该乐观，因为他每吃一颗都是吃剩的葡萄里最好的；第二种人应该悲观，因为他每吃一颗都是吃剩的葡萄里最坏的。不过事实却适得其反，缘故是第二种人还有希望，第一种人只有回忆------钱钟书。《你是哪种人？》
39, there are two kinds of people. Like a bunch of grapes, a person taking out the best to eat, another person to give the best left to the last to eat. The first kind of people should be optimistic, because the best every time he ate a leftover grapes are; the second one should be pessimistic, because every time he ate a leftover grapes are the worst. But the fact is run counter to one's desire, is the second person because there is hope, people only remember the first - Qian Zhongshu. "What kind of person you are? "
40、他出身于书香门第，父亲是大学教授。他为爱妻，20年来从不上CCAV；他是个好爸爸；他顾家，厌恶应酬，滴酒不沾；他才华横溢，琴棋书画样样精通，学生时是体育全能，探戈高手；他饱读诗书，季羡林赞他可胜任北大的研究生导师，曾与钱钟书是忘年之交，他说他只是个戏子。他就是陈道明。一个很给力的男人。
In 40, he was born in a family of scholar, father is a university professor. His wife, 20 years never on the CCAV; he was a good father; he Gu, shuns socializing, his full of wit; he fancies of men of letters, proficient in everything, student sports Almighty, Tango master; he read Ji Xianlinzan, he can be competent the Peking University graduate tutor, and Qian Zhongshu is the friendship between old and young people, he said he is just an actor. He is Chen Daoming. A very awesome man.
41、旧上海黑社会老大杜月笙的经典语录：1)做人有三碗面最难吃：人面、场面、情面;2)头等人，有本事没脾气；二等人，有本事有脾气；末等人，没本事大脾气；3)人可以不识字，但不能不识人;4)钱财用的完，交情吃不光。所以别人存钱，我存交情。存钱再多不过金山银海，交情用起来好比天地难量。
41, the old Shanghai gangster Du Yuesheng classic quotations: 1) man three bowls of noodles the most difficult to eat: the human face, sensibilities, scene; 2) the first man, can have no temper; two others, have the ability to temper; at the end of the person, do not have the ability to lose your temper; 3) the people can not read, but not know people; 4) money with complete, friendship eat not only. So others save money, I save a friendship. Saving more but Jinshan Yinhai, friendship world like to use up quantity.
42、成功根本没有秘诀，如果有的话，就只 有两个：第一个是坚持到底，永不放弃；第二个就是当你想放弃的时候，请回过头来再照着第一个秘诀去做------丘吉尔
42, there is no secret of success, if any, only two: the first is to persist, never give up; the second is when you want to give up, please come back again according to the first secret to do - Churchill
43、他，21岁，生意失败。22岁，州议员落选。24岁，生意再败。26岁，爱侣去世。27岁，一度精神崩溃。36岁，众议员落选。45岁，参议员落选。47岁，提名副总统落选。49岁时，参议员落选。52岁，当选美国第十六任总统。他叫林肯，坚信上帝的延迟，并不是上帝的拒绝，最终成就不凡。
43, he, 21 years old, the business failed. At the age of 22, congressman election. 24 years old, the business lost. 26 years old, her death. At the age of 27, had a nervous breakdown. At the age of 36, congressman election. At the age of 45, senators voted. 47 years old, was nominated for vice president. At the age of 49, senators voted. 52 years old, was elected the sixteenth president of America. His name is Lincoln, believe that God's delay, and not a denial of God, the ultimate achievement uncommon.
44、善良的苏格兰农夫从粪池救出一个小男孩，男孩的绅士父亲酬谢，农夫拒。绅士说：让我们签个协议，我带走你的孩子，给他最好的教育，农夫允。农夫的孩子后来发明了青霉素，获得诺贝尔奖。数年后，绅士的儿子得了肺炎，青霉素治好了他。这两个孩子分别是弗莱明和丘吉尔。
44, the kind of Scotland farmer rescued a boy from the septic tank, the boy's gentleman father reward, farmers refused. The gentleman said: let us sign an agreement, I take your , give him the best education, farmer. The farmer later invented penicillin, get Nobel award. A few years later, the gentleman's got pneumonia, penicillin cured him. The two were Fleming and Churchill.
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【现实在告戒】 [warning] reality in
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Posted:Nov 28, 2013 2:46 am
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2013 8:20 am 642599 Views
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1、1998年，马化腾等一伙凑了50万创办了腾讯，没买房；98年，史玉柱借了50万搞脑白金，没买房；99年，丁磊用50万创办163.com ，没买房；99年，陈天桥炒股赚了50万，创办盛大，没买房；99年，马云等18人凑了50万， 注册阿里巴巴，没买房。如果当年他们用这50万买了房，现在估计还在还着银行的贷款吧。
1998, Ma Huateng and a group of collect 500000 founded Tencent, did not buy a house; 98 years, Shi Yuzhu borrowed 500000 make melatonin, did not buy a house; 99 years, Ding Lei in 500000 founded 163.com did not buy a house; 99 years, Chen stocks gained 500000, its big, did not buy a house; 99 years, the cloud 18 people together 500000, registered Alibaba, did not buy a house. If they used these 500000 bought a house, now estimated to still also a bank loan.
2、年轻的我们必须懂得：we must understand the young:
1）你不勇敢，没人替你坚强；2）没有伞的孩子必须努力奔跑； you not brave, no one for you to be strong;no umbrella must try to run;
3）自己选择的路、跪着也要把它走完；4）不要生气要争气，不要看破要突破，不要嫉妒要欣赏，不要拖延要积极，不要心动要行动；choose your own way, kneeling will go through it;
do not get angry to live up to expectations, don't look to break, do not envy to appreciate, do not delay to be positive, not Heartbeat to action;
5）宁愿跑起来被拌倒无数次，也不愿规规矩矩走一辈子，就算跌倒也要豪迈的笑。
5) would rather run was tripped several times, rather than the rules for a lifetime, even if the fall also proud smile.
3、人生三大遗憾：不会选择，不坚持选择，不断地选择；人生三不斗：不与君子斗名，不与小人斗利，不与天地斗巧；人生三修练：看得透想得开，拿得起放得下，立得正行得稳；人生三大陷阱：大意，轻信，贪婪；人生三大悲哀：遇良师不学，遇良友不交，遇良机不握。人生三大不争：不与领导争锋，不与同事争宠，不与下级争功。
3, three regrets in life: don't choose, choose not to choose life, constantly; three: do not fight with a bucket, do not fight with the villain profit, not fight with the world Qiao; life three discipline: look through to open, can hold something up and put it down, stand is done stability; life three traps: the effect, credulity, avarice; three life: meet the good teacher does not learn, meet the friend not to, does not hold good opportunity. Life three: no indisputable and leadership capability, not with colleagues Zhengchong, not with lower power struggle.
4、一个人，如果你不逼自己一把，你根本不知道自己有多优秀。一个人，想要优秀，你必须要接受挑战;一个人，你想要尽快优秀，就要去寻找挑战。一个人，敢听真话，需要勇气;一个人敢说真话，需要魄力。一个人的知识，通过学习可以得到;一个人的成长，必须通过磨练。
4, a person, if you don't force yourself, you don't know how good. A person, want to good, you must accept the challenge; a person, you want good as soon as possible, it is necessary to look for challenges. A person, dare to listen to the truth, need courage; a man who dares to tell the truth, courage. A person's knowledge, through learning can be; a person's growth, must be honed.
5、最温暖的八种食物：5, eight kinds of food the most warm:1）早上醒后来的一个煎蛋；2）上班出门前塞在包里的一个苹果；3）加班深夜回家后的一碗热汤；4）睡觉前的一杯牛奶；5）伏案工作时的一杯热茶；6）生病卧床时的一碗白粥；7）喝闷酒的时候一碟小菜；8）酒醒后的一碗清汤面。《你吃到过几样？》
1) the morning wake up a Fried Eggs later;
2) work out the front plug in the package of an apple;
3) overtime home late at night after a bowl of soup;
4) a cup of milk before going to bed;
5) at work when a cup of hot tea;
6) was sick in bed with a bowl of Rice Congee;
7) piece of cake when drink;
 after drinking a bowl of clear soup. "You have a few? "
6、网易CEO丁磊说：“千万不要以为我是抱着一个伟大的理想去创办一个伟大的公司，我从来没有远大的理想，也没有想要成为一个很有钱的人。创办网易时我只是想做一个小老板，就想有个房子有辆汽车，不用准时上班，可以睡懒觉。我的梦想也是那么简单。”丁磊的话很实在。但是，现在创业已经不是那么简单了。
6, NetEase CEO Ding Lei said: "do not think that I hold a great ideal to create a great company, I never have lofty ideals, also did not want to become a very rich man. Founded NetEase when I just want to do a small business owner, I want to have a house with a car, don't get to work on time, you can sleep late. My dream is so simple." Ding Lei's words really. However, now the business is not so simple.
7、人脉中需有的十种职业人：
The ten kinds of occupation, 7 contacts:
1） 票贩子；2）旅行社；3）律师；4）人才市场/猎头公司；5）当地公务人员/警察；7）保险/金融/理财专家；8）维修人员；6）名人；9）媒体联络人；10） 医生/护士/养生专家。《你认识这十种人吗？用心经营您的人脉关系吧！》
1) ticket;2) travel agency;3) lawyers;4) the talent market / headhunting company;5) the local civil servants / police;
6) celebrity;7) insurance / financial / fiscal experts; repair personnel;9) media contact person;
10) the doctor / nurse / health experts. "You know these ten kinds of people? The heart of the business to your contacts! "
8、做人的底线： a bottom line:
1）不做第三者，即使再喜欢；2）骗我可以，如果被我知道超过两次，请你有多远滚多远；3）如果你拿我不当回事，我会以同样方式对你；4）我可以装傻，但别以为我真傻；5）我可以容忍，但别超过我的底线；6）我不是没脾气，只是不轻易发脾气；7）任何真话，我都能接受。
1) don't do any third party, even if like;
2) lie to me, if I knew more than two, you have far far roll;
3) if you take me, I will for you in the same way;
4) I can play the fool, but don't think I'm a fool;
5) I can tolerate, but don't over my bottom line;
6) I did not temper, but not easily loses his temper;
7) any truth, I can accept.
9、15岁觉得游泳难，放弃游泳，到18岁遇到一个你喜欢的人约你去游泳，你只好说“我不会耶”。18岁觉得英文难，放弃英文，28岁出现一个很棒但要会英文的工作，你只好说“我不会耶”。人生前期越嫌麻烦，越懒得学，后来就越可能错过让你动心的人和事，错过新风景。------蔡康永
9, at the age of 15 to give up like swimming, swimming, at the age of 18 when a man you like about you go swimming, you have to say "I'm not". 18 think English difficult, to give up English, 28 years a great but to be English work, you have to say "I'm not". Early life more trouble, more to learn, then more likely to miss lets you move people and things, Miss New scenery. - Kevin Tsai
10、25岁的英国士兵Barry Delaney穿着鲜亮的绿色吊带短裙和粉红腿套，在同袍好友Kevin Elliott的葬礼上哭的一塌糊涂,他俩是同在阿富汗执行任务的好友.他们之前有一个约定:无论谁先不幸西归,另一个都要穿女装亮相对方的葬礼,为那里灰暗的悲伤带去一丝亮色，很感人，一诺千金。《伟大的友谊，你有这样的朋友么？》
10, 25 year old British soldier Barry Delaney wore a bright green dress and pink legs, in those friends Kevin Elliott's funeral, crying in a complete mess, they are in Afghanistan's friend. They had an agreement: no matter who unfortunately go west, another must wear dresses at each other funeral, for there was sadness with a bright color, very moving, as good as gold. "The great friendship, you have such a friend? "
11、慢慢成熟的标志：1）早上无论多困,也会马上起床上班；2）喜欢吃家常便饭多于外面的餐馆；3）喜欢隐身，网络签名长时间不更改；4）喜欢看新闻多于看八卦；5）打电话给朋友的次数少了；6）可以让你开心的人或事,越来越少了；7）没结果的事情,渐渐就少做了；8）低落的时候选择一个人呆着。
11, slowly mature symbol:
1) morning, no matter how tired, will immediately get to work;
2) like to eat more homely food restaurant;
3) like stealth, network signature long time does not change;
4) like to watch the news more than see gossip;
5) call friends less;
6) can make you happy person or thing, become less and less;7) not the result of things, gradually do less;
down to be alone.
12、美国旧金山有一老头查克费尼，穿旧衣服，戴烂手表，住出租屋，挤公交车。他为美国教育捐出了近20亿美金，还希望死前把仅有的40亿美金全部捐献给社会。在北京有个大富豪陈五喜，开豪车，住华宅，吃大餐，手上戴大钻戒，投资房地产，同时还在民政部门领取低保，8年间共得到10万元的社会救助。《中美差异》
12, America San Francisco has an old man Chuck Feeney, wearing old clothes, wearing black watch, live in rental housing, the crowded bus. He donated nearly $2000000000 to USA education, also hope to die before he had only $4000000000 donated to the society. A multimillionaire Chen Wuxi in Beijing, open car, live house, eat a good meal, wearing a big diamond ring, investment real estate, at the same time, the civil affairs departments still receive minimal assurance, 8 years a total of 100000 yuan of social assistance. "The difference between China and USA"
13、1931年的1月30日是世界现代史上灾难的一天，阿道夫•希特勒被任命为德国总理。他的名言：“消灭一个民族，首先瓦解它的文化；要瓦解它的文化，首先消灭承载它的语言；要消灭这种语言，首先先从他们的学校里下手。”，当今的中国大学里无论什么专业，英语是必修课，汉语却不是。
In 1931 13, January 30th is the modern history of the world disaster of the day, Adolf Hitler was appointed Chancellor of germany. His famous saying: "the eradication of a nation, the first collapse of its culture; the collapse of its culture, first eliminate its language; to end the language, the first from their school." Today, China university no matter what professional, English is a required course, Chinese is not.
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时间管理的艺术 The art of time management
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Posted:Nov 26, 2013 11:20 pm
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6、成本观念
6, the cost concept
经济学非常讲究成本。对待时间，就要像对待经营一样，时刻要有一个“成本”的观念，要算好账。在生活中有许多属于“一分钱智慧几小时愚蠢”的事例，如为省一元钱而排半小时队，为省两毛钱而步行三站地等等，其实都是极不划算的。在国外，给小费有时是为了赢得时间。在经济学中，休闲也是有成本的，它的机会成本就放弃了工作所能带来的收益。因此成功人士十分推崇积极休闲，因为“不同的歌声会带来不同的心情”。在他们看来，积极的休闲应该有利于身心的放松、精神的陶冶和人际的交流，比如打羽毛球、看体育比赛、踏青、去图书馆、参加文化沙龙、听讲座、写作以及知心朋友间的聊天等都很有好处。
Economics is very particular about the cost of. Treat time, like a business, always have a "cost" concept, to good account. In life there are many belongs to the "penny wise hours stupid" case, such as the province of a yuan of money and line for half an hour, as the province of twenty cents and walk three station and so on, are in fact very uneconomical. In foreign countries, tipping is sometimes in order to gain time. In economics, leisure is cost, the opportunity cost of giving up work can bring benefits. Therefore, successful people praised highly active leisure, because "different song will bring different mood". In their view, positive leisure should be conducive to the physical and mental relaxation, refinement of the spirit and interpersonal communication, such as playing badminton, watching sports, hiking, go to the culture salon, listening to lectures, writing and intimate chat between friends are very good library, etc..
7、精选朋友
7, select friends
朋友也要精选。多而无益的朋友是有害的，他们不仅会浪费你的时间、精力、金钱，也会浪费你的感情，甚至有的朋友会危及你的事业。要与有时间观念的人和公司往来。而恋人的选择则更要谨慎，因为爱人是一生的事情，合适的恋人会不自觉地成为你的“爱人同志”，不仅使你的生活浪漫而温馨，更会使你的追求富有意义并充满动力。一份真实而美丽的感情会为你节约时间，并使你有勇气面对现实、迎接挑战。
Friends should also select. Many good friends are bad, they will not only waste your time, energy, money, may be a waste of your feelings, and even some friends will jeopardize your career. With the sense of time and the company. And lovers choice is more cautious, because love is a lifetime thing, a suitable lover will unconsciously become your "lover", not only make your life a warm and romantic, but also make you pursue meaningful and full of power. A true and beautiful feelings will save you time, and that you have the courage to face reality, face the challenge.
8、巧用电话
By telephone 8, clever
要尽量通过电话来进行交流，沟通情况，交换信息。打电话前要有所准备，通话时要直奔主题不要在电话里说无关紧要的废话或传达无关主题的信息与感受。要善于利用现代办公设备为自己服务。许多食物和表格都可以借助电脑，提前予以格式化，用时则只需几分钟就可输出。一封节日贺信可与电子邮件同时发给许多人。
As far as possible through the telephone to communicate, communication, exchange of information. To be prepared before the call, went straight to the theme of don't say be of no great importance nonsense or convey information and feelings irrelevant on the phone to call. Be good at service for their use of modern office equipment. Many foods and form can make use of computer, to be formatted, when only a few minutes to output. A holiday letter and e-mail sent to many people at the same time.
9、集腋成裘
9, many a little makes a mickle
生活中有许多零碎的时间很不为人注意，其实这些时间虽短，但却可以充分利用起来做一些事情。比如等车的时间可以用来思考下一步的工作，翻翻报纸乃至记几个单词。成功不是摸大奖，它需要日积月累的努力。需要心平气和的等待。
In life there are many fragmentary time was not noticed, but the time is short, but it can make full use of it to do something. For example, waiting time can be used to thinking about the next step work, read several newspapers and remember words. Success is not touching the award, it takes days and months multiplying efforts. Need to be in a calm mood to wait for the.
10、提前休息
10, ahead of the rest
在疲劳之前休息片刻，既避免了因过度疲劳导致的超时休息，又可使自己始终保持较好的“竞技状态”，从而大大提高工作效率。好的身体本身就是一个节约时间的要素，“没时间休息的人，早晚会有时间生病的。”
Rest for a while before fatigue, both to avoid because of excessive fatigue cause timeout to rest, and can make you keep good "form", which greatly improves the work efficiency. Good health is a time saving elements, "no time to rest, and there will be time sick."
11、花开花落
11, the flowers bloom
不要固执于解决不了的问题，可以把问题记不来，让潜意识和和时间去解决它们。这就有点像踢足球，左路打不开，就试试右路，总之，尽量不要“钻牛角尖”。切记，你放不开的事情会吃掉你越来越多的时间，直到你放开它为止。
Don't cling to solve the problem, the problem can not remember, let your subconscious mind and time to solve them. This is a bit like playing football, the left does not open, try on the right, in a word, don't try to "get". Remember, you can't put things you will eat more and more time, until you let go of it.
12、学会速读
12, learn to speed read
约大多数书籍并不值得从第一页开始逐页细读，一般而言，一部三百页的图书有二十页可取的就很不错了，我们任务就是把有价值的这部分内容“检索”出来。在这个信息时代，速读的能力或日迅速抓住要点的能力已显得十分重要。读书如此，“读人”也是如此，你必须很快甄别出谁是你的朋友，谁是你的时间克星。
About most books is not worth from the first page by page reading, generally speaking, a three hundred page book has twenty pages desirable is very good, our task is to take part of the contents of this "valuable retrieval". In this age of information, have become very important speed reading ability or quickly grasp the main points of ability. Reading this, "so is reading people", you have to quickly identify who is your friend, who is your time.
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当孩子犯错后。。。。
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Posted:Nov 26, 2013 10:59 pm
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2013 3:45 am 642070 Views
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孩子成长的过程中，免不了会遇到各种问题。家长可以先问孩子八个问题。而往往问不到几个问题，事情就已经很清楚并得到解决了。
第一个问题是：“发生什么事情了？”
这个问题看起来不起眼，但是非常重要。许多成人碰到突发状况时，会习惯性的太快下判断：“一定是你先打他，他才会打你。”“一定是你做错事，老师才会处罚你。”如果我们不让孩子从他的角度说说事情的经过，很可能冤枉孩子。况且，让孩子有机会说话，即使真的是他的错，他也会因为有机会为自己辩解而比较甘心认错。
第二个问题是：“你的感觉如何？”
事情经过是客观事实，当事人心里受到的冲击纯然是主观的感受，无所谓是非对错。很多时候，我们只是需要把自己的感受说出来而已。一旦说出来，哭一哭，骂一骂，心情就会好多了。脑科学研究表明，当一个人情绪强烈的时候，外在刺激不容易被脑部吸收。也就是说，当一个人还有情绪的时候，别人说什么他都会听不进去。总要等到他心情平静下来，才可能冷静思考。所以如果我们希望孩子能够听得进去我们的意见，我们就需要先同理他的感情，让他的情绪有个出口。
第三个问题 孩子够冷静之后，可以问他 ：“你想要怎样？”
这时不管孩子说出什么惊人之语，先不要急着教训他，而是冷静的接着问他
第四个问题：“那你觉得有些什么办法？”
在这个阶段，不妨跟孩子一起做脑力激荡，想各种点子，合理的、不合理的、荒唐的、可笑的、恶心的、幼稚的……脑力激荡的重点就是允许任何看似无稽的想法。这时候不论听到什么，都暂时不要做批评或判断。
第五个问题 等到再也想不出任何点子的时候，就可以他：“这些方法的后果会怎样？”
让孩子自己一一检视，每个方法的后果会是什么？你可能会很讶异的发现，大部分的孩子都明白事情的后果。如果他的认知有差距，这时候就可以跟他好好讨论，让他明白现实真相。这是一个很好的亲子沟通机会，但是要避免说教，只要陈述事实就可以了。
第六个问题 然后问他：：“你决定怎么做？”
孩子一定会选择对自己最有利的状况，如果他了解后果，通常会做出最合理、最明智的选择。即使他的抉择不是成人期望的结果，也要尊重孩子的决定。成人一定要言而有信，不能先问他怎么决定，然后又告诉他不可以这么决定。这样子，他以后再也不敢信任你了。何况，就算他选择错误，他从这个错误中也可以学习到更珍贵难忘的教训。
第七个问题 接着问：“你希望我做什么？” 并且表示支持。
第八个问题： 等到事情过去之后，问他最后“结果怎样？有没有如你所料？”或是“下次碰见相似的情形，你会怎么选择？”
让他有机会检视自己的判断。
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据说这些字99%的人都写错了！
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Posted:Nov 26, 2013 10:09 pm
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2013 11:31 pm 641791 Views
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你中枪了木有？ 注：括号里的是正确的写法！
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11，重迭(叠) 12，渡(度)假 13，防(妨)碍 14，幅(辐)射 15，一幅(副)对联 16，天翻地复(覆) 17，言简意骇(赅) 18，气慨(概) 19，一股(鼓)作气 20，悬梁刺骨(股)
21，粗旷(犷) 22，食不裹(果)腹 23，震憾(撼) 24，凑和(合） 25，侯(候)车室 26，迫不急(及)待 27，既(即)使 28，一如继(既)往 29，草管(菅)人命 30，娇(矫)揉造作
31，挖墙角(脚) 32，一诺千斤(金) 33，不径(胫)而走 34，峻(竣)工 35，不落巢(窠)臼 36，烩(脍)炙人口 37，打腊(蜡) 38，死皮癞(赖)脸 39，兰(蓝)天白云 40，鼎立(力)相助
41，再接再励(厉) 42，老俩(两)口 43，黄梁(粱)美梦 44，了(瞭)望 45，水笼(龙)头 46，杀戳(戮) 47，痉孪(挛) 48，美仑(轮)美奂 49，罗(啰)唆 50，蛛丝蚂(马)迹
51，萎糜(靡)不振 52，沉缅(湎) 53，名(明)信片 54，默(墨)守成规 55，大姆(拇)指 56，沤(呕)心沥血 57，凭(平)添 58，出奇(其)不意 59，修茸(葺 60，亲(青)睐
61，磬(罄)竹难书 62，入场卷(券) 63，声名雀(鹊)起 64，发韧(轫) 65，搔(瘙)痒病 66，欣尝(赏) 67，谈笑风声(生) 68，人情事(世)故 69，有持(恃)无恐 70，额首(手)称庆
71，追朔(溯) 72，鬼鬼崇崇(祟祟) 73，金榜提(题)名 74，走头(投)无路 75，趋之若骛(鹜) 76，迁徒(徙) 77，洁白无暇(瑕) 78，九宵(霄) 79，渲(宣)泄 80，寒喧(暄)
81，弦(旋)律 82，膺(赝)品 83，不能自己(已) 84，尤(犹)如猛虎下山 85，竭泽而鱼(渔) 86，滥芋(竽)充数 87，世外桃园(源) 88，脏(赃)款 89，醮(蘸)水 90，蜇(蛰)伏
91，装祯(帧) 92，饮鸠(鸩)止渴 93，坐阵(镇) 94，旁证(征)博引 95，灸(炙)手可热 96，九洲(州) 97，床第(笫)之私 98，姿(恣)意妄为 99，编篡(纂) 100，做（坐）月子
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哦，是这样的！ Oh, is this!
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Posted:Nov 26, 2013 12:42 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2013 4:23 pm 642032 Views
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吵架需要两个人，而停止吵架只需一个人；
Quarrel needs two people, and stop the fight only one person;
送奶的人比喝奶奶的人身体棒；
The milkman than drinking grandma's body bar;
腾不出时间来休假，迟早会腾出时间来生病；
No time to leave, will sooner or later find time to get ill;
“命”是失败者的藉口；“运”是成功者的谦词；
"Life" is the loser excuse; "luck" is the success of modest words;
把别人拉下来时你一定也在下面；
Pull down the others when you must have in the following;
通常人们让你提出批评指正时，其实等待的是表扬；
People usually let you put forward criticism, actually waiting for praise;
有油水的地方通常是最滑的地方；
The water place is usually the most slippery place;
得意时朋友认识了你，失意时你认识了朋友。
When the friends you know, when you meet a friend.
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他深受俄罗斯人民的尊重和爱戴 He was influenced by the Russian people's respect and love
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Posted:Nov 25, 2013 11:45 pm
Last Updated:Jan 8, 2014 8:40 pm 639283 Views
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令人无比敬仰--普京
A great admiration -- Putin
人民网发文《俄社会调查显示：俄罗斯人对普京变得更加尊重》，我读了该消息之后并不吃惊，或者说这样的调查结果原本在我的意料之中，因为俄罗斯人没有理由不尊重普京。----来自网传
People.com.cn issued "the Russian Social Survey: the Russians more respect" for Putin, after I read the message is not surprised, or that such findings were in my expectations, because the Russians have no reason not to respect Putin. -- from the network transmission 在我的印象中，普京第一次当选俄罗斯总统后做的第一件大事，即是将靠巧取豪夺非法先富的大富豪送进监狱。此举至少收到了以下效果：一举解决了资本绑架政权的问题，震慑了那些想继续瓜分国有财产榨取百姓血汗率先致富的人，表明政府打击豪强解决贫富悬殊两极分化的决心，赢得了民心。
In my impression, the first thing that Putin was first elected president of Russia to do, is to take away by force or trickery by illegal rich millionaire sent to prison. The move from at least the following effects: to solve the capital problem of kidnapping regime, to deter those who want to continue to divide up the state-owned property to squeeze people sweat to get rich, that the government against the tyrannical solve the polarization of determination, won the support of the people.
紧接着，普京通过官员公布个人财产(自己带头)、追缴官员海外私产(自己带头)、追缴官员海外私产、打击裸官等系列举措铁腕治贪惩腐，既打苍蝇，更打老虎，许多官僚因此或遭解职，或被绳之以法，一时间俄罗斯官场出现了官不聊生的局面。财产收入合法透明、廉洁奉公的普京缔造了风清气正的俄罗斯官场，俄罗斯民众该怎么看待这样的元首? Then, Putin through the official published personal property (their lead), recovered officials overseas private (their lead), recovered, officials overseas private property, against naked official series measures vigorously punishing corruption, can fly, more play tiger, so many bureaucratic or is dismissed, or restrain by law, a Russian official appearance time the officer did not talk health situation. Property legal income transparent, clean Putin create the wind in the air is Russian officialdom, the Russian people should look at how such heads? 最近俄罗斯还制定了让全体国民永久享受免费医疗的法案(让别国国民羡慕不已，让别国官员痛恨不已)，随着俄式改革的不断深入，俄罗斯民众有理由相信他们将从普京执政中获得更多的实际利益。普京更像是在用实际行动(决不是口惠而实不至)表明，他执政走的是共同富裕道路，他要让全体俄罗斯人(不是少数人、外国人)充分享受俄式改革的红利。Russia recently developed for the national permanent enjoy free medical care act (let other countries people envy, let other countries officials bitter), along with the deepening of the reform of Russia, the Russian people have reason to believe they will get real benefits from the Putin administration more. Putin is more like to use the practical action (not pay lip service) that, his administration is taking the road of common prosperity, he let the Russians (not a few people, foreigners) to fully enjoy the Russian reform dividend. 在维护国家统一上，普京也是屡出大手笔。一方面针对西方渗透势力予以有力回击，一方面对国内分裂势力进行及时打击，当年解决车臣问题就是最好的例子。早两年，俄罗斯还专门出台法律，设立叛国罪，对震慑和打击俄奸起到了至关重要的作用。这些举措彰显了普京维护国家统一的坚强意志。
In the maintenance of national unity, Putin also repeated big. On the one hand western penetration forces to be strong back, on the one hand, the domestic separatist forces to blow, when solving the Chechen problem is the best example. Two years ago, the Russian special laws, the establishment of treason, the vital role in deterring and fighting against Russia's play. The move highlights Putin's strong will to safeguard national unity 苏联解体已经20多年，解体后的各国绝大多数老百姓都还在怀念社会主义苏联，俄罗斯民众也不例外。作为曾经的苏共党员，普京似乎并未忘记过去的信仰，据说他将共产党党证放在自己的办公桌抽屉，不时还要拿出来看看。在普京的倡议下，俄罗斯立法禁止国民对列宁、斯大林进行诽谤，禁止污蔑苏联社会主义制度。 [/COLORThe disintegration of the Soviet Union has been 20 years, countries after the disintegration of the vast majority of people are still missing the socialist Soviet Union, the Russian people are no exception. Once a Communist Party member, Putin did not seem to forget the past belief, he is said to be the Communist Party on his desk drawer, and from time to time out and have a look. Under Putin's proposal, the Russian ban on Lenin, Stalin national libel, slander Soviet Socialist System from. 在国际舞台，普京纵横捭阖，大气磅礴，将美欧日玩弄于鼓掌之上，更是令人拍案叫绝，在普京治理下的俄罗斯才真正体现了一个负责任的大国的风范。
In the international arena, Putin be perpendicular and horizontal, grand and magnificent, will the United States and Europe and Japan by hand, is all the more be overwhelmed with admiration for, in Putin's Russia is truly reflects a responsible large country style.
在事关主权和国家利益的问题上，普京从来不韬光养晦，更没有下贱到要拿俄国的领土领海与他国共同开发的地步。日本人对北方四岛一直耿耿于怀，可在普京的强硬态度面前，日本不仅不敢派人登岛、派飞机军舰巡视守卫，连大声抗议都不敢。普京曾经表态，俄罗斯决不以牺牲国家和人民利益为前提加入世贸组织，于是欧美各国不得不迁就俄罗斯准其加入了世贸组织。
In the matter of sovereignty and national interests, Putin never keeping a low profile, but not cheap to get Russia's territorial waters and his country's joint development. Japanese on the four northern islands has been to heart, can in front of Putin's tough attitude, Japan not only not sent a boarding Island, sent warships patrol plane guard, even loud protests are not. Putin once said, Russia will not sacrifice the interests of the country and the people to join the WTO as the premise, and Europe and the United States had to accommodate Russia are allowed to join the WTO. 作为安理会常任理事国，在重大国际问题上该投赞成票还是反对票，普京考虑的只有俄罗斯利益，决不看美国人的脸色。08年，普京下令，俄罗斯对南奥塞梯闪电动武，不仅将格鲁吉亚打得大败，还大大震慑了美欧各国，使美欧各国再不敢轻易插手俄罗斯周边国际事务。在最近的叙利亚事件中，普京略施小计，便成功挫败了美国对叙动武的图谋，令美国国内矛盾升级、政府关门。这一招玩得实在是太漂亮了!这一招玩得实在是太漂亮了!在他国拒绝斯诺登避难后，俄罗斯毫不犹豫就给斯诺登提供了保护，一向以世界霸主自居的美国拿俄罗斯和普京毫无办法。世界上敢和美国叫板的硬汉，毛泽东之后，就数普京了。
As a permanent member of the Security Council, on major international issues to the vote for or against, Putin consider only the interests of Russia, never to see Americans face. 08 years, Putin ordered the attack on South Ossetia, Russia lightning, will not only Georgia defeated, also greatly deterred European countries, the European countries and not easily intervene in Russia around the international affairs. In the recent events in Syria, Putin got around, they successfully thwarted USA to Syria to attempt, to American domestic escalation of conflicts, the government closed down. This trick really is too beautiful! It really is too beautiful! In his country after Russia refused to Snowden shelter, without hesitation gave Snowden protection, has always been to the overlord of the world itself American with Russia and Putin no way. The world American dare and challenge the tough guy, Mao Zedong, was Putin. 强硬中不失风度，铁血中不乏柔情，坚韧与执着并重，机智与幽默皆有，这样的普京，不仅让苏联解体后处在饥饿与动荡中的俄罗斯人逐渐享受到了和平、安宁与稳定，享受到了改革带来的红利，还为俄罗斯人在国际上赢得了尊严和地位，俄罗斯人有什么理由不尊重和爱戴这样的领袖?当然，那些想靠权力发财的贪官、想用不正当手段先富的人渣、想靠出卖国家谋取私利的蠹虫、想给美国做带路党的叛徒除外。
Grace is strong, the lack of tenderness, tenacity and perseverance to pay equal attention to, wit and humor are, like Putin, not only after the disintegration of the Soviet Union in hunger and turbulence in the Russians gradually to enjoy peace and stability,, enjoy the reform of dividends, but also for the Russians won dignity and status internationally, the Russians have what reason not to respect and love such a leader? Of course, those who want to get rich by power of corrupt officials, want to use improper means the scumbag, want to rely on rich selling state for personal gain, want to do: American except the way the party a traitor.从普京身上可以看出，一个国家元首只要真正为自己的国民谋利益，真正让自己的国家在国际上有尊严，他就能赢得本国国民的尊重和爱戴。Seen from the Putin body, a head of state as long as the real work for the interests of their own people, really let their national dignity in the world, he can win a national respect and love.
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【坚持】的魅力 [stick] Charm
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Posted:Nov 25, 2013 3:59 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2013 7:48 pm 642183 Views
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如果现在不坚持，你到哪里都会是放弃
If we do not insist, where you would give up
▼有一种成功，叫永不言弃。有一种成功，叫继续努力。人们都说：过去的习惯，决定今天的你，所以，过去的懒惰，决定你今天的一败涂地。人哪，你可以失败，也可以从失败中站起。
▼ is a kind of success, that never give up. There is a kind of success, that continue to work. People say: past habits, decided to you today, so, the past lazy, you suffer a big decision today. Man, you may fail, can also stand up from failure.
▼但是，你一定要记住，决不能习惯失败，因为你要知道，身体的疲惫，不是真正的疲惫。精神上的疲惫，才是真的劳累。真正的绝望，是内心的迷茫。
▼ but, you must remember, must not be used to failure, because you know, physical fatigue, not really tired. Mental fatigue, is really tired. True despair, is the heart of the confusion.
▼我们必须记住：路是自己选的，后悔的话，也只能往自己的肚子里咽。我们自己选择的路，即使跪着也要走完;因为一旦开始，便不能终止。这才叫做真正的坚持。
▼ we must remember: the road is their own choice, regret, also only to their stomach pharynx. We choose your own way, even kneels must also walk; because once started, will not stop. This is called the true.
▼如果我们要做好一件事情，就是要有志向和意志。做事情的志向，也就是你必须要设定你自己的目标，不论是阶段性的还是人生的，不论是关系紧要的还是不太重要的事情，我们最好要制定合适的目标，这样，才能够合理组织自己的时间和精力去做事情。提高效率，摆脱碌碌无为的状况。
If we want to do a thing, is to have the ambition and determination. Do things ambition, is you have to set your own goals, regardless of is the stage of life, whether it is important or not important things, we'd better make a suitable target, such, can organize their time and energy to do things. To improve the efficiency of the situation, get rid of mediocrity.
▼做事情的意志，也就是执行力，坚持自己志向，执行自己目标的能力。有些人总是有各种各样的目标，甚至是宏伟异常的目标。但是还是庸庸碌碌一生，无所作为。这个首先就是制定目标不合理，还有一个比较关键的就是没有执行自己的志向，实践自己的目标。再宏伟的目标，也是不会实现的。空中楼阁存在于童话之中。做事情还是需要我们自己坚实的基础，需要我们以志向，目标为指引，以意志与坚持为策力。一步一步，量变到质变会带我们接近梦想的。志向与意志也是这么相辅相成，缺一不可。
▼ to do things will, also is executive force, adhere to their own aspirations, the ability to perform their own goals. Some people always have different kinds of goals, even the magnificent anomaly target. But ordinary life, attempt nothing and accomplish nothing. This is the first goal setting is not reasonable, and a key is not performing their own ambitions, practice their goals. The grand goal, but also will not achieve. In the fairy tale castles in the air. Do the things you need to base our firm, we need to aim, goal, with will and adhere to the strategy. Step by step, quantitative change to qualitative change will bring us closer to the dream. Ambition and will also so complement each other, are indispensable.
回头看过自己走过的路，经历的事，看到的，想到的，听到的，欲望着的各式各样的情形。我明白了一些事情。
Looked back through their own way, experience it, see, think, hear, desire of every kind of situation. I understand something.
▼进步和成长的过程总是有许多的困难与坎坷的。有时我们是由于志向不明，没有明确的目的而碌碌无为。但是还有另外一种情况，是由于我们自己的退缩，与自己“亲密”的妥协没有坚持到底的意志，才使得机会逝去，颗粒无收。
Process ▼ progress and growth always has a lot of difficulties and frustrations. Sometimes we are because of ambition is unknown, the lack of clear purpose but unsuccessfully. But there is another case, is due to withdrawal of our own, and their "intimate" compromise did not adhere to in the end will, makes the opportunity lost, lost.
▼现在我遇到严重的困难，有些畏惧，甚至想要放弃的时候，我就会问自己：在此之前，有没有任何一件事情，是你尽量努力了，全力争取了，最后却没有做成的?答案是没有。似乎只要努力过，争取过的事情，从来没有失败的例子。那些让人悔恨的经历，反倒是那些退缩、软弱、偷懒、不尽力争取的场景。所以，尽力去做就好了，不要跟自己妥协。做应该做的事情，做好该做的事情。
I'm serious difficulties encountered, right now some fear, even want to give up, I will ask myself: prior to this, there is not any one thing, you try to hard, the best, but not made? The answer is No. It seems as long as you work hard, strive for things, never failing examples. Those who make it through, but the recession, weak, lazy, do not try to fight scene. So, try your best to do it well, don't compromise yourself. Do the right thing, do the thing to do.
▼如果不坚持，到哪里都是放弃。如果这一刻不坚持，不管再到哪里，身后总有一步可退，可退一步不会海阔天空，只是躲进自己的世界而已，而那个世界也只会越来越小。如果现在不坚持，到哪里都是放弃，这句话是应该铭记在心的，时刻警戒着自己。
If do not adhere to, where is give. If this moment do not adhere to, no matter where, there is always a step behind the back, can step back and not as boundless as the sea and sky, just hide themselves in the world, and the world will become more and more small. If we do not insist, where it is to give up, this sentence should be borne in mind, always alert yourself.
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