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Learning to leave love 4/15/2004
I believed that everyone had pondered about love at least
once in their life. Its mere existence complicates everything
there is about life. To me, love is beautiful, bitter, sweet
and every bit as painful.
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I met my ex last summer and although initially I was taken
by his good looks, I learned to love him as I start to see all
sides of him. From the very first day we met, ...
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"Getting over it" is not the same as "falling out of love". 2/16/2004
I think that when you love someone and they reject you, then
you go through stages, like there are stages that a person
goes through when they are experiencing a loss through
bereavement. First of all you feel that everything is hopeless
and you feel “empty inside”, then you might attempt (more
than once) reconciliation with them, by calling them or
even turning up at their ...
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RE: Why we can't stay together 9/15/2003
I do not want to judge others' experience, but to me
people often break because their minds are full of dreams
and they wish people to fit exactly in them. But it may rise
conflits and if people cannot manage well and be less self-focused,
break-up might be difficult to avoid.
Only a few people understand that being together is doing
small COMPROMISES. Compromising doesn't mean being ...
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Pain of heartbreak 9/10/2003
The heartache is painful
And tears drop like the rainfall
But pass will time
And just like this rhyme
All will be forgotten
And you won't feel so rotten
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RE: TO move on or to hold on ... 9/7/2003
Its is an artical nice for the words but hypocritical from
your heart!
You are the one who only loves yourself I think or you will
never just want to blame on the other insteady of CHEAK OF
YOU BACK OF YOUR NECK!
If your lover left you there was must a reason for her leave.
If you cant hold you love tightly then it is reasonable be
left by your lover as well.
Love is a magic thing, ...
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Re---------Why things dont last 9/7/2003
If thing like what you said in your artical, then I should
say it is your fault!!!
It is very clearly that you were not loyal to her and you even
cheated the feeling of yourself for being love her, instead
of this you degenerated yourself by fooling aroud. Do you
think this is the kind of person SHE loved?
And I must say, what you should do is asking for her forgive!!!
SO, Now you know ...
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Why we can't stay together 9/7/2003
People break up for several reasons, (1) she doen't
love him or he doesn't love her. (2) She never loved
him or he never loved her. (3) She doen't know what real
love is or he doesn't know what real love is. (4)The
two of them just never really connected with each other.
(5) It takes time and work, not just time to make a relationship
work and if only one part of the two does the work or ...
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RE: TO move on or to hold on ... 9/5/2003
I was negatively impressed by the tone of this breaking-up
article, because it is somewhat pretentious and not completely
honest.
I don't know whether it is easier to leave someone than
to be left! But there is a saying in a foreign language that
says that when you want to get rid of your dog, you say it had
rage.
It would be more honest to say, one had to break because one
were not ...
1 Comments, 268 Views,
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TO move on or to hold on.... 8/6/2003
There's always a reason why we have to move on... To
say goodbye to the feelings we wanted to stay forever, for
love has to set its wings free and find the right place where
it should be.
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I cry for the time you were almost mine, I cry for the memories
you've left behind, I cry for the times I thought I had
you.
<br>
Never take for granted the person who truly ...
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Leave Them the Good Things to Remember 8/3/2003
You should avoid leading someone into falling in love until
you are sure of your feelings for them. Still, if your relationship
fails, you should always leave the other person with the
best of you have to offer, so their memory of you will endure.
You must be honest and let them know that the relationship
is finished. Everyone deserves honesty. But honesty is
not the same as cruelty. ...
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Love does hurts... 8/2/2003
I first met this guy several months ago ( we met online),
and since we both from different cities, we been trying
hard to meet at least once/twice a month, about 1000km far.
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This 3 days Aug.long weekend, we planned a long road trip,
and decided to meet in the middle and go from there, but unfortunately
because of the forest fire, all the major route was closed
and I waited 7 ...
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Ref: How to tell a girl it the time to move on. 7/18/2003
The best way is to give her some hints that you think are appropriate
for her, if you not tell her about this, she will continue
misunderstanding, I think she will understand this slowly
and get chances to find the appropriate one after that!
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Re: My breakup story 4/6/2003
No. not all girls are like that. You allowed her to walk all
over you. This could happen to anyone. Guys do the same thing
if the girl allows him to step on her. It's time to cut
the tie and move on. One one should get drag around like a
rag doll. You seem like her sounding board. I bet you bought
her ton of presents too didn't you?
0 Comments, 132 Views,
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My break-up story 3/14/2003
<br>
Dear friends,
<br>
i want to write to you all about my break-up story. I am feeling
so sad because my man told me that we both need to concentrate
on our own staff: me on my school and internship, he on his
work and putting his life together. I am very young (26),
attractive woman, i am Asian. He is 43, African American.
So, he left a meesage for me saying that ...
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Re-"Re-I love him.." 3/6/2003
Thanks for your reply. Yes, that is what I think too. A
is a to love, no matter the color of his/her skin. Yet,
many men would still get scared to get involved in something
they think will put the relationship at risk. If I can remember
well, there is a Chinese proverb, saying the Duke of Ye or
She liked dragon so much, but when he saw a real dragon one
day, he got very scared and ran ...
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Re: "I love him" 3/1/2003
Regarding the article submitted 2/27, I was very sorry
to hear your story. The tragic irony is that the two of you
probably didn't have to suffer the abortion at all,
if he had had the courage to face his parents. For most Chinese
parents, a pregnant foreign -in-law may come
as a shock at first, but the joy of having a grandchild more
than makes up for it! Many Chinese parents would have ...
0 Comments, 123 Views,
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I love him, I'm pregnant, but he finds all kind of reasons to abort 2/27/2003
I had a very serious love romance with someone I cherished.
We wanted to get married. But many obstacles appeared on
our way before we can hope to hear the wedding bells. I was
divorcing (I'd never hidden any facts to him), and he seemed
reluctant to talk about our relationship to his Chinese
family and friends, as he promised them he would not get
married with a foreign lady. But we were ...
0 Comments, 241 Views,
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Breaking up is for a reason 2/4/2003
Breaking up is sometimes hard to deal with but it's exactly
how life is. If you don't break up then how can you find that
love of yours today?Breaking is for a good reason. It can
be if a person losees chemistry with you and you can help
ask what or why is there no chemistry? But a person can't
explain it's how they feel and you can't change a person's
feelings..If two people dont' have ...
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心碎的冰咖啡 7/27/2002
他只喝清咖啡 苦苦的
我只喝冰咖啡 即使在最冷的天气里
那时我们常去那间咖啡屋
坐那临窗的位子
……
我和他都是固执的人
是不是因为这样
才处不下去
才走到要分手
……
我不知道
……
很久没见后的某一天
他出现在我的面前
...
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爱的破灭----柔肠百转终是伤 7/27/2002
《不如归去》
那天
一晚无眠,清晨早起
上网,见你
沉醉于迷雾森林
邀请你进入我的心灵
伤人的话语,现实的隔距
我的灵魂触摸不到你
八年前的初恋已经远行
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下网
坐在窗台
风来,雨起
心湖泛起阵阵涟漪
过去的回忆,你的眼睛
上次的聊天,温柔的话语
...
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不知道这个世界是否有真爱 5/14/2002
我和她相识在完年前,我们有过甜蜜,只是现在我们有了一些矛盾。她就离我远去。真的我好想她,为何情到深处。却有如此遗憾。我好感慨,难道世界上真的没有真爱?
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try to replenish that 100 memories.... 1/31/2002
" while snow flowers flying on the shy, can you hear there
is a song in heaven?" I said... " I want to meet you." you said...
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Drawing us on a beach picture with a red kite on sky...
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" Are you still there? I can't hear you..." I used to say "yes, I am still there..." you used to say.
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Try to heal a insect bite on your finger..
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Think about ...
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I am travelling to meet my friend.... 1/30/2002
Friends here, let's share it....
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Cheerless is the day, the light under frowning clouds islike a punished with traces of tears on its pale cheeks,
and the cry of the wind is like the cry of a wounded world.
But I know I am travelling to meet my Friend. <br>
Tagore - Stray Bird
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If you need my tears to pay for yours... you win 1/30/2002
You always say that many people in the world are so cruel.
Did you notise that you have become one of them? Hate has
blinded your eyes. Can you forgive others as easily as you
forgive yourself? You always say life is not simple. Well,
why did you see things between us in a simple way? I didn't.
I know very well people's feeling are very complicated
and confused sometimes. That's one of the ...
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When the come to say good bye ... learn from it. 1/29/2002
When the breaking up time come, don't try to blame the other
but come to face you own fault. The ending of the story is
created by both of you two. Not just one person. Sincerely
appologize for the hurt you caused to the other. Forgive
the other at the same time. Hate can only eat the hater's
own heart. Face your own fault. Learn from it. So no matter
how sad the ending is it is worthy ...
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something about giving chance.... 1/29/2002
When your lover asked you give a chance, will you give it
to him? It is a war inside ourselves. Will you come back to
a person who hurt you badly? Will you come back to a person
who ever cheat you? No one can answer these question except
you. Most of time, wheather or not we give out a chance is
upto ourselves not what the other one did. The reason is
quite simple.Well, you can see this ...
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you are not my imagnation... 1/29/2002
You are not my imagnation. You are my first love.
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I know no one can be perfect. I am not. You are not. I nevertry to find my perfect dream from you. Although, we did chat
on line many many hours, but, when you came into my real life,
you still was a stranger. It's the first time, I feel that
you are such real. It is the frist time, you are not just words
and voice. I was so ...
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If you love an imagination ... 1/27/2002
If you love an imagination you will forever argue with your
real-life true love - because he is not the person in your
mind. You will drive them crazy, and drive them away. Then,
when all is lost, accuse 'him' of being in love with an imagination
... !
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What a happy world ! 1/25/2002
What a happy world
It would be,
If each of us
Could follow
Their own advice !
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Don't fall in love with your imagnations. Be honest to your heart.... 1/24/2002
If you are here looking for true love, please be careful...
Try not mix your imagnation with the person you are contacting.
Distance can creat beauty. Ask yourself if you do love the
inside of the person or you just love a hope this person bring
to you. Make sure if you really love the person or you just
love the surroundings of the person. For, if you are not
really in love with the ...
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