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love can be at different level 2/20/2008
in this world, everyone is unique. nobody else can substitute
others. the pain and hurt will never be easy. you will never
forget him. but, you will find the peace of heart when the
time goes by and, you will rebuild up yourself at a different
level and open yourself again for the love and the life ahead
of you.
After you walked out from the previous relationship, you
lost your sleep for ...
4 Comments, 148 Views,
16 Votes
,4.60 Score |
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Be a little bit philosophical 2/3/2008
I realise most people who come in here have some personal
issues to deal with. But if you try to be a bit philosophical
about the relationships you will be a much happier person.
Sometimes there are just no "whys" in life,
just "is". Trying to rationalise the emotional
issues simply makes you more depressed. So, just accept
the outcome and move on, take the "whatever will be
will be" ...
1 Comments, 314 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score |
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Is it possible to love again after your heart has been broken? 1/6/2008
Is it really possible to really love again? The logical
answer is YES..But why don't I feel this way?
I ask this because I went through a tough break up with someone
whom I loved dearly about 7 mos ago. I feel like the flame
I once had inside my heart is now out. This flame is dead...Nothing,
no one, not even myself seems to make me truly happy.
Is this like a phase I'll ...
8 Comments, 358 Views,
29 Votes
,3.34 Score |
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Both forget and remember when love fail 1/6/2008
Now comes the time, goodbye love
one more thing to tell before I leave,
I'll both forget and memory save.
I'll forget
how you leave me alone,
in darkness no one hear me groan;
how you walk away and slam the door,
smiles on your face I see no more;
to my tears you give silence in return,
let alone cold words on my heart burn; ...
4 Comments, 247 Views,
34 Votes
,3.42 Score |
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real friendship 1/4/2008
Everybody have many friends from here and there.but real
friendship between friends is
very great, if you smile he smile with you .you cry he would
talk with you
1 Comments, 141 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score |
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westeners 1/3/2008
Westerners are fools, intruders all where is it written that they know best where in the hell did they take that test why did we lose our land to others not here first, when others fled did they get their house back or did they but start again where they landed Westerners are fools, intruders all my religion is fine by me, oh yes they came changed every thing my god of yesteryear was wrong they ...
2 Comments, 46 Views,
12 Votes
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Clinging to pain only punishes ourselves 12/26/2007
Painful situations, relationships hurt us, memories
of experiences that pinch our nerve endings, need not imprison
us.
However, we are seldom very quick to let go of the pain. Instead,
we become obsessed with it, the precipitating circumstances,
and the longed for, but often missed outcome.
We often wallow in our pain, rather than learn from it. We
salt our wounds every time we ...
5 Comments, 81 Views,
10 Votes
,4.38 Score |
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Signs of Cheating 12/7/2007
Have you ever caught your partner cheating?
If not, then what are the signs that he/she's cheating
on you?
Are you still willing to give him a second chance to improve
and change?
If there's no hope to give it one more try, what's
your next move?
21 Comments, 230 Views,
12 Votes
,4.92 Score |
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Leave room for both to break with dignity... 12/2/2007
Leave room for both to break with dignity...
The curiosity was there. The emails where honest and open.
Then came the first date. Boy sparks flew! A few more dates
later, and you share a private time. Wow, what an experience.
After a few months, things slowly change. You don't
care for their political fews. They think you have stinky
feet. Their parents are to ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score |
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''SPECIAL'' 11/27/2007
"SPECIAL"
is a word
that is use to descrive
something one-of-a kind,
like a hug
or a sunset
or a person who spreads love
with a smile or kind gesture.
"SPECIAL"
descrives people
who act from the heart
and keep ...
4 Comments, 81 Views,
18 Votes
,2.58 Score |
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is it some simple 11/26/2007
as it happened to me
1 Comments, 35 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score |
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Breaking up and moving on... 11/12/2007
Breaking
up is never fun.
The end of a
relationship means
the beginning of a period of mourning
and healing for both people.
If the break up was mutual both
people will experience a period
of adjustment where they are
getting used to no longer being
together.
If the break up was not mutual
the person who ended things
may be ...
3 Comments, 150 Views,
29 Votes
,5.65 Score |
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HOW TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT REALLY WITH!!! 10/30/2007
Okay now what!!! I dated this guy "one" time.
No sex involved but a little kissing and petting and now
he thinks we are a couple. I have told him I am not really interested
but he keeps calling and send me cards. He does not seem to
get it and is apparently obsessed with me. What should I
do? Thanks.
38 Comments, 1297 Views,
95 Votes
,2.89 Score |
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my story of friendship, relationship, marriage?? 10/30/2007
Hi there,
Although i had 4 relationships before ( including my marriage)
I think I have to say it's not EASY to build and maintain
a strong relationship. My marriage only last for about
one year, got married in the last day of June, but separation
started next April, got divorced in Aug. I'm quite
happy of being single again.
Don't know why, maybe i'm just too nice and ...
6 Comments, 94 Views,
12 Votes
,3.15 Score |
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Marriage 10/24/2007
The Husband Store
A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York
City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the
instructions at the entrance is a description of how the
store operates.
You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and
the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends
the flights.
...
3 Comments, 81 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score |
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What on earth do women want? 9/16/2007
I've notice so many women on AFF write that they are
looking for Mr. Right, their prince, knight, Adam, or something
like that. Mainly they say that this perfect guy will do
everything for them and treat them like a princess. Well,
I really do wonder about that and I'd like some opinions,
especially from those women.
<br>
You see, when you talk with other women, they say they will ...
6 Comments, 253 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score |
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Just Walk Away forever or be friends? 8/29/2007
In the past, I have always been strong enough to walk away
from a relationship when it was over and never look back.
This means no contact forever in any shape of form and having
the resolve to be consistent to this.
This approach while tough gave me the following benefits:
1) FREEDOM - No baggage for a new relationship. I was able
to meet ...
7 Comments, 181 Views,
22 Votes
,4.33 Score |
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DIFFERENT MEAN OF ICONS FOR EASTERN AND WESTERN 8/27/2007
in this days i discover something of very intersting concern
the eastern and western mode of use some icons... and in
particular that icon:
<br>
<br>
this icon espacially in yahoo messenger where u can see
a rotation of the head normally want see OH NO!!!
<br>
but more asian girls use that icon for say:
<br>
I'M SURPRISE OF THAT...INCREDIBLE!!! ...
0 Comments, 106 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score |
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Yes most break ups are painful 8/1/2007
This pain can cause anger, emotional or physical sickness,
feelings of lack of worth, deep sadness, betrayal, vulnerability,
lack of feeling physically attractive or emotionally
available (especially if their was infidelity involved)
I have not spoken to my ex-girlfriend for approximately
10 years when she contacted me by e-mail the other day. She
lives in South Korea now and is married. ...
9 Comments, 172 Views,
16 Votes
,5.19 Score |
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Love 7/31/2007
When a woman falls in love with a man, it's a tragedy,
and vice versa. When a the two love each other, that's
a blessing. But in this world, there are more tragedy than
blessing.
2 Comments, 97 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score |
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hi 7/31/2007
how are you all ? x
1 Comments, 30 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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steps to breaking up 7/19/2007
The Steps To Breaking Up The Steps To Breaking UpWhen you need to do it, do it with
as little pain as possible! by owen
Just the words, break up, indicate a situation riddled
with impending pain and loss. Even if both parties involved
agree it is in their best interests to part romantic ways,
there is still a certain amount of loss attached. The best
way to approach a break up is to ...
1 Comments, 18 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score |
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Question of the day 7/18/2007
How many times will I be able to write random, nonsensicle
articles solely for the purpose of getting the points?
0 Comments, 81 Views,
19 Votes
,0.88 Score |
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lessons she learnt 6/24/2007
The stars and trees had reminded her of him. The way they
littered the sky in all their shining glory, took her back
to when they had sat sometimes in silence and often in warm
embrace.
The breeze was different where he was. The trees knew it
all along, but not she. Or perhaps she had never taken the
time to notice it. How the wind had caressed her face and
skin and whispered to her that ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score |
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BMW engineer vs God 6/4/2007
An engineer, of the BMW Motorrad Corporation died and went
to heaven.
At the gates St. Peter told him, "Since you've
been such a good man and your motorbikes have changed the world,
your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want in Heaven".
The Engineer thought about it for a minute and then said,
"I want to hang out with God." St. Peter took
him to the Throne ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score |
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to marry a foreign 5/29/2007
What does a chinese girl think about of marry a foreign?
6 Comments, 275 Views,
11 Votes
,0.55 Score |
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is it possible to stay friends after the break up? 4/29/2007
I have recently gone through a break up and it was sudjsetes
by her to stay friends after. I don't think this is possible
to happen because we still have feelings for each other,
that will always get in the way of a real friendship, not
to mention that eventually we both will find new boy friends,
and girlfriends that will not approve of "hanging
out with the X"
What do other people think ...
6 Comments, 173 Views,
30 Votes
,3.83 Score |
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tell me your opoin, please. 4/24/2007
Dear
<br>
Of course, I am very angry with you yesterday night!! But
I try to talk you and communicate with you still!!! Why?
Why I do it still? Why I donot stop all contact with you easily?
I will tell you the reason here!!!!!
<br>
I am one person who always want to solve the problem of my
life with communication and talking. Easily give up and
stop the contact is not my ...
1 Comments, 99 Views,
6 Votes
,1.09 Score |
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UK Marriage Survey 4/14/2007
Here are some interesting marriage
statistics from the UK.
Reasons for marriage breakdowns include:
27% - Adulterous behavior
18% - Family strains
17% - Emotional/physical abuse
13% - Mid-life crisis
6% - Workaholism
6% - Addictions (alcoholism, gambling, etc.)
4% - Business problems
4% - Other (communication problems, ...
11 Comments, 153 Views,
14 Votes
,4.42 Score |
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Be considerate 3/21/2007
Treat others as you want to be treated
0 Comments, 15 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score |