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Accept the break up 12/13/2005
It is really hard to accept the breaking up, if your really
love your man.There is some people love to break the heart
of a woman.Been hurt a lot of time in my life but breaking
my heart is the worse.its hard to recover.Although you
had new boyfriend still always the topic of the conversation.
0 Comments, 190 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score |
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Divorce and Be Free! 11/25/2005
Divorce and be free,
It's what happenned to me,
With new found freedom bought so dear,
I found my way To China, from here
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With love so new,
With love so true,
To the one who set me free,
A thank you, from me
1 Comments, 119 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score |
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fall and break 11/17/2005
well, with my own life experience i have learned that from
a good thing, we take it and enjoy it. And from a bad experience?
we just learn a hell from it. it teaches us a lot about who
we are, about our own weaknesses, about what we need and
want from life. it teaches us how to become better people.
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i also believe that the way we see things is very important.
for instance, ...
1 Comments, 165 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score |
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My party 11/8/2005
Hi, new party is on august 22, 2005.
Come to New York City
1 Comments, 47 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score |
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Surviving infidelity 10/27/2005
I still remember so vividly the moment it was clear my love
was involved with another man. Although I saw all the warning
signs, I ignored them. How could this woman I've known
for so long be unfaithful? We share a beautiful , are
blessed with loving families, she was a religious woman,
and had strong financial security (both of us being physicians)
and lifelong plans. Why would anyone want ...
1 Comments, 311 Views,
14 Votes
,6.02 Score |
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True Friend!!! 10/9/2005
A Friend is someone who speaks to our heart, someone whom
we feel a magnetic affinity. Friendship is the coming together
of equals even if there is a difference in abilities, roles
or position, yet there is a vision of equality which does
not create any feeling or superiority or inferiority.
This equality of vision permits an acceptance of the other
unconditoanlly. This creates ...
1 Comments, 123 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score |
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Over, done, the end 9/24/2005
I usually get over it becuase life is too short to fulfill
my dream. Why should i be suffered? Generally i just kept
myself busy and persuit my career. Many fishes in the sea...
One person doesn't make a different in my world.
0 Comments, 221 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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Had a girlfriend who called me to break up? 9/24/2005
Was this the right thing to do?
This ws just after we spent the weekend together and she
left out of town after I paid for her plane tickets etc....
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She was a student, butn i told it was tacky.
she said "what does this have to do with fashion?"
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<br>
=)
1 Comments, 219 Views,
47 Votes
,0.98 Score |
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The best way to forget the one we love 9/24/2005
To date someone new as soon as possible is the best way to
forget the one we love...Is this the best way?
2 Comments, 348 Views,
80 Votes
,0.46 Score |
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Break up and Move on 9/24/2005
Breaking up is not easy. Many of you, including myself has
experienced this heart aching, knife cutting pain.
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The result of breaking up usually are either happy or sad,
or indifferent. But no matter what kind of feeling you may
bear, if it is over, then it is over.
<br>
We shall keep the best memroy, nice experience and move
on. It is part of the life experience. ...
1 Comments, 403 Views,
14 Votes
,4.42 Score |
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Trying To Get Rid of the Pain 9/17/2005
How is it possible to try and get rid of the pain of a 6 year
relationship? I just got out of one because i moved to Vancouver,
Canada. And i was living in Edmonton, Alberta before. I
cant handle ling distance relationships?
Who can right? How can they relief the pain that you get when
you are madly in love with someone and you cant love someone
until if anoher person swept you off your ...
1 Comments, 308 Views,
13 Votes
,3.98 Score |
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COLLECTORS 9/12/2005
IM A PHONE CARD COLLECTOR PLEASE CONTACT ME SEND ME A MESSAGE
YO MY PROFILE TO SHARE PHONECARDS FROM MY COUNTRY SEEEEEEEEEE
YOUUUUUUUU SOOOOOOOOOON
0 Comments, 130 Views,
6 Votes
,1.09 Score |
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The Deepest Heart 9/12/2005
I will let go, all the things I wanted
I will not do them anymore
Forgive me, for loving you
Forgive me, for I waiting for you
Have u ever tried to understand?
And see me here
Is it possible for I dream?
Is it wrong for I wait?
Exhausted I won’t, waiting for you
Dissappear it won’t, my love for you
Until the time, you ever come back
I will ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score |
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The one you loves just consider you a sex partner 9/5/2005
It's really sad as we have found somebody we love but
he/she considers you a sex partner only. If you had such
experience, you prefer move on or keep the relationship
as for avoiding to loss him/her?
1 Comments, 50 Views,
34 Votes
,5.22 Score |
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Is It Time For A Relationship Break? 9/3/2005
Here are some of the most common:
Things are moving too fast (or too slow)
She may be pressuring you to commit way too soon. Conversely,
you may be waiting for her to show signs that she's as
into you as you are her. Either way, your speeds are mismatched
and the longer you wait, the more apparent it becomes.
Things are getting stale
The same old routine ...
1 Comments, 151 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score |
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After the breakup... surviving loss. 8/4/2005
No doubt if you have had a recent breakup you are beginning
to experience some of the "Oh wow what now?"
that attends a relationships end. It's never really
the end of the relationship that causes these feelings
you understand, but it's the surfacing of all the emotions,
expressed and those unexpressed that were not fullfilled
during the relationship, perhaps during the first couple
of ...
2 Comments, 435 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score |
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the Second Love...(2) 8/1/2005
I went to Guangdong before and saw all walks of life. I saw
rich men abandoned their families to live with mistresses
outside. These facts together with the lesson of my failed
first love made me to revise my standard of choosing bf:
1. He must be older than me; 2. He shouldn't be a rich
man.
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We met when one of my friends invited me to his birthday party.
He was invited. He ...
0 Comments, 536 Views,
34 Votes
,7.10 Score |
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Hang Tough Jilted lovers 7/30/2005
Cry, whine, call them, stalk them, threaten to kill yourself
or better still do it that'll show 'em.
Don't let go, live in the past, stay in denial, Don't
ever leave'm,
Don't make a decision. worry constantly what to do.
ask/listen to everyone but do nothing. Be afraid very afraid
to be alone. Remember there will NEVER be another person.
Turn to booze/drugs or better still religion the ...
0 Comments, 1427 Views,
15 Votes
,0.53 Score |
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here 7/30/2005
Breaking up is best done quickly. There is no reason to drag
it out and make it longer than it has to be. Life is too short
to waste time with someone you don't want to be with.
On the other hand even if I was in that situation I would want
the girl I liked to break up with me quickly.
1 Comments, 230 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score |
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Bad Pictures 6/7/2005
I am just writing to vent.... I WISH this site would review
pics more closely and inform the contributor that they
ought to submit a better pic. I am SOOO tired of pics that
are like Travel scenes; a whole landscape scene and there
in the middle, is a little iddy-biddy person that you can't
even tell if they are male of female. The pic was taken when
they are 50 feet from the camera. ...
0 Comments, 387 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score |
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Happiness 5/30/2005
I know that this sounds a bit RUDE -- because we are human;
and we interact with other humans -- find pleasure in them
AND pain; and many, many other things. Yet, when we, as humans
TRULY REALIZE that WE ARE THE MASTERS OF OURSELVES, THAT
WE ARE THE CAUSE OF *EVERYTHING* THAT HAPPENS TO US, *THAT
WE CREATE OURSELVES AND HOW WE FEEL*; AND WHEN *WE CHOOSE*
(*note: the KEY word here is ...
2 Comments, 440 Views,
21 Votes
,4.86 Score |
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After An Affair Steps to take so you can find each other again... 5/24/2005
Can the heart ever trust again after it has been crushed?
Can a couple look at this time as a way of becoming even closer
than they had ever been? Can there be romance after an affair?
If both parties concerned are willing to work it out, the
answers to these questions are, "Yes!" In an
age where the chances of getting a divorce are higher than
staying together, the likelihood of infidelity ...
1 Comments, 247 Views,
36 Votes
,4.62 Score |
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What we learn 5/6/2005
You've got to be taught to be afraid
Of people whose eyes are oddly made,
And people whose skin is a different shade,
You've got to be carefully taught.
You've got to be taught before it's too late,
Before you are six or seven or eight,
To hate all the people your relatives hate,
You've got to be carefully taught!
The above lines are from a famous song and they ...
1 Comments, 174 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score |
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What do I do with all the sh_t? 5/1/2005
After the bombs stop falling and the smoke clears, what
do you do with all the sh_t?
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I have closests, drawers and cabinets full of clothes,
bags, shoes, and junk. So being the "gutless bastard"
I am, I pack all the "stuff" and put it into storage.
Or course, the storage cost eventually exceeds the value
of the "stuff", but I keep paying in the hopes
that she will claim ...
2 Comments, 391 Views,
6 Votes
,1.09 Score |
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Seven Wrong Reasons to be in a Relationship 4/26/2005
1. Pressure (age, family, friends, etc.)
2. Loneliness and desperation
3. Sexual hunger
4. Distraction from your own life
5. To avoid growing up
6. Guilt
7. To fill up your emotional or spiritual emptiness.
3 Comments, 446 Views,
22 Votes
,4.21 Score |
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Our human spirit 4/5/2005
A short article by Sssarah caught my attention and when
she wrote - The days we stayed together are unforgettable;
and the days we are apart are much more ... - it made me think!
What she wrote is true. We tend to remember the sadness rather
than the joy, the bad times rather than the good, the tears
rather than the laughter.
Is there something in our human spirit that dictates we ...
1 Comments, 336 Views,
12 Votes
,2.62 Score |
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six BIGGEST mistakes we make in the beginning of a relationship 3/23/2005
1. We don't ask enough questions.
2. We ignore warning signs of potential
problems.
3. We make premature compromises.
4. We give in to Lust Blindness.
5. We give in to material seduction.
6. We put Commitment Before
Compatibility.
3 Comments, 471 Views,
31 Votes
,5.54 Score |
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My War Story 3/18/2005
How do you end a relationship with someone you love?
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Yes, we've all gone through this at one time or another.
Sometimes by our own doing and at other times as the victim.
My most recent was the most painful of all.
After nine years of slamming my head against a concrete
wall, I finally said enough and got a restraining order
and kicked out my ex. She was beautiful ...
1 Comments, 265 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score |
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why? 3/16/2005
why do people try to make bad relationships work when its
going to end in deception anyway try making a good relationship
work
3 Comments, 150 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score |
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the First Love....(1) 3/6/2005
After graduating from high school, I was 18 years old. I
liked to write essays and poems at that time. All were sentimental,
though I had never experience love and romantic things.
Maybe it was because I never felt being loved and wanted
to be loved.
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One day, my friend borrowed my newly-written essay to read
and showed it to her boyfriend. And her bf showed it to his ...
3 Comments, 1115 Views,
20 Votes
,6.44 Score |