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Easier for men 2005-04-15
Because there are at least 10 men here to every woman (my
own rough non scientific estimate), it follows that women
will recieve a lot more messages than men.
While I agree that it would be nice to receive even a polite
"no than you", it is understandable that it
does not happen very often. Because we get less messages,
it is easier for us men to send polite rejections than it
is ...
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Tell the truth. 2005-04-10
Telling the truth and being honest is always appreciated
and you won't feel bad either. Playing games is the
worst thing you can do to the person facing you and to yourself.
Honesty is the best policy. Palying with the emotions of
a person is immoral and unacceptable.
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replies 2005-03-23
should one always reply, even if not interested...or by
not replying does that send a message? I always try to reply
at least once if someone messages me.
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You never know the person you tell no thanks could have been the one you seek 2005-03-08
When you say no thanks unless the person is rude you may be
thinking this person really sucks, but remember this
if you do not chat and get to know them
that may be you prince charming. We get so busy in our lives
you never know love and experiences you've never had
could be waiting for you and change your life.
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No thanks 2005-01-24
No Thank is what has been said, peace , love and craziness.
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Reality 2005-01-21
The reality everyone reacts differently to rejection.
Those who are strong will take it on the chin and move on or
may proceed to keep trying.
These people you need to be pretty straight up even if it
hurts their feelings it won't be for long.
For those who are weak means a differnent aproach would
be required. It's about being honest again but being
more suttle.
I believe most people ...
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Thank you dear 2005-01-14
Thanks for giving me heartbreak
Thanks for letting me feel so bad
Thanks for rejecting me
Thanks for ignoring my tears
Thanks for making me strong
Thanks for putting me in the rain
Thanks for telling me how stupid I am
A lot of thanks...
I'm strong enough to face everything you did for me
I don't feel bad
I don't be sad
I don't cry
Because I already get over you
My ...
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Never be what you cannot deliver 2004-08-25
Well, I used to be one of those prissy-type girls. You know,
the ones that wear nail polish, wear really cute little
clothes and fling my "oh so silky" hair about.
I attracted those kind of people who were just as twisted
in their thinking as I was. I say, unless you are willing
to deliver attention and sincere respect to all those you
are demanding it from, than all you are doing is ...
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Not my type 2004-08-19
I met a woman in a nice little bar for our first meeting. She
seemed nice over emails. She was waiting for me at the hostess
stand, when she saw me, she squeeled loudly. I was embarassed.
I was wearing clean blue jeans and a nice shirt. She was wearing
blue jeans and an old sweatshirt. Her front teeth stuck
almost straight out of her mouth when she opened it. It was
gross. I ...
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我依然爱你 2004-07-16
栾/
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我想起我们共度的时光是我最美好 ...
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没有感受，因为我是无心之人 2004-07-10
心碎
一缕缕的思念轻掸着我的心房
一丝丝的苦恼缠绕着我的神经
一庄庄的故事摇曳着我的记忆
风吹乱了我的发髻
吹散了我的思绪
任凭雨水在脸上拍打
品不出口中的是泪水还是雨水
请不要这样残酷
你可以伤我的心
可以伤得彻彻底底
用你的言语击碎我那痴狂的等待
...
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你比我幸福 2004-06-25
寂寞当然有一点，你不在我身边，总是特别想念你的脸，距离是一份考卷，测验相爱的誓言，最后会不会实现！！！！！！！天气转凉了，我要送你一件外套∶
口袋叫温暖；领子叫关怀；
袖子叫体贴；扣子叫思念；让这件
外套紧紧伴著你渡过每一分每一秒，一定要幸福喔！
*☆∵
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I NEED YOUR HELP!!!! PLEASE 2004-06-21
I have aa close friend to me, but lately I have been very concerned
about her. He hangs out with people who smoke(smoke other
things along with that)and make stupid idiodic choices
in their pathetic lives. The more she hangs out with them
the more off track she seems to get from having a good life.
I don't know what to do, because after a while I'm
afraid that she'll want me to too. I don't ...
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curious about reasons for marriage 2004-06-04
Hi everyone. I am writing this in response to a email reply
that I just recieved. While thankful to even receive the
reply it made me very curious as to the motives of some of
the members. In the reply it was stated that the lady was
only interested in western men living in western countries.
As I am a westerner who is currently living in Korea (temporarily)
I was in a way shocked. If the ...
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Profile 2004-04-24
I get turned off by someone who listed their wealth on their
profile. For instance, the man says he owns a 4 bedroom,
3 TVs, nice car, and a job with over $100, 000 salary, should
I be impressed?. NOT. I prefer someone who tell me more about
him self whether his a decent human being or not. His wealth
doesn't say anything about him but it sounds more than
a bait to get people's attention. ...
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Reply to 2003-02-10
I read the "Pic not what expected" article and offer the
following advice: I too received a number of responses
to my profile and the pics I received were not the problem...
It was the distance! I got a lot of replies from beautiful
women but they were in China and I am in the USA.
<br>
At first I responded politely to each inquiry by suggesting
that they contact someone ...
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Picture is not what you expected .... 2002-05-28
I have received over 200 inquiries to my profile to date
and I am flattered beyond belief.
<br>
Sheer dumb luck I think I would call it. Right place at the
right time. I feel so bad for all those wonderful people
who are lonely and seeking as I am ....
<br>
I was wondering what is the proper thing to do when someone
writes you and you check their profile and :
<br> ...
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don't say sorry! 2001-06-05
看了你的文子，很是一般。其实不用象他说什么道谦的话，没有必要，既然你爱他，又为何找别人，没有什么理由可以说，是你的错，但无须道谦 ...
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don't say sorry! 2001-06-05
看了你的文子，很是一般。其实不用象他说什么道谦的话，没有必要，既然你爱他，又为何找别人，没有什么理由可以说，是你的错，但无须道谦 ...
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Always Be Polite~! 2000-10-06
When you receive and email from someone that you know you
are not interested in, it is always best to be polite. ther
eis nothing more painful than to receive and email that
says "You are not my type because you are too (old, fat, ugly,
skinny, young, etc.) The nicest way of putting things is to
always thank the person for taking the time to contact you. Because, this person
opened ...
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It is better to say 2000-08-19
If you received an email fom someone who is not the "right"
one, it is far better to say "I'm sorry, but I am not interested...etc"
than to let the person keep sending unwanted email. Plus
it will be better for you. <br>
Many people try to "shotgun" emails to a wide variety of
people in the "hope" of getting the right one. I don't see
anthing very harmful in this, but it is a ...
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ڵSexal Abuse ! 2000-07-27
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I’d rather prefer a “no Thanks” for an answer then… 2000-07-16
<br>
<br>
I met her in an old girl friend of mine Party. I look at her
and thought there she is…. I beg my friend to introduce us
and she did it Wright away, this is “Brian”, this is “Jane”.
I talk with her only a few minutes, I’ve turned my backs only
for just a short length of time and Abracadabra…. she gone.
Well, I asked my ...
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