luna19 41 F 1  question	Help me..I'm so confused... - 6/3/2001 I'm currently a sophomore and and I have been dating this guy(a senior) for 2 months, then suddenly he had to go back to his country for 3 months (the whole summer). He promised me to call me, email me, etc. He did it in the first week, then after that, I didn't hear any new from him till now. We are very close, almost like a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. But sometimes, he turns me ... 4 response(s), 1 vote
lucky28nyc 51 M 1  question	Is she marrying for love or citizenship??? - 5/19/2001 Need advice.. <br> Meet a woman over the internet from a personl ad. When I wroteto her, I thought she was in China. To my surprise, she was already in my city ...visiting. We really hit it off (2 months ). She will have to go back in another couple of months. In order for her to stay, we would have to get married. <br> Issues...she does not speak English and it will be ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
QTmuimui 44 F 1  question	Why is ONCE never enough? - 4/30/2001 I m sure that we have all been through many different relationships, may it be good or bad, but I m sure we'll not forget. <br> Sometimes its quite ironic, every time we are in a new relationship, we tell ourselves that this is the "one" that we'll spend the rest of our lives with, to love and to cherish, and to share our pain and sorrow. But when it doesn't work out, we then tell ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
e2gymnast 57 M 2  questions	What does it take to marry a woman from China and bring her to the US? - 4/30/2001 What does it take to marry a woman from China and bring her to the US? Can a woman from China visit the US on a short term or fiancée visa? What type of paper work is necessary? How is the paperwork processed by US and China? How long does it take? Can I just go to China, marry her and bring her back with me? How long does it take for green card, citizenship? Do I need a lawyer? What are ... 8 response(s), 3 votes
snow_dove 45 F 2  questions	really hurts - 4/14/2001 My sister is very rude to me. When we disagree on something, she'll start yelling and when i try to talk to her nicely about it, she'll just close her ears and says, "Go away, i don't want to hear you talk". Even when she's wrong, she just won't listen, she thinks she's right all the time. <br> My relationship with her has really been deteriorating these two years. She just gets ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
AelZiig 73 M 1  question	Is Interracial Dating Ok? - 3/12/2001 Is it ok to date out of your race and is it possible to find true happiness in a interracial relationship? 4 response(s), 0 votes
LonesomeHeart 40 M 5  questions	Some advice would help me alot :) - 3/10/2001 I am a single chinese guy (never dated) living in Australia <-- pretty pathetic eh? I've known this girl for maybe 2 to 3 years on the net and wehave met and gone out a few times. <br> I have had strong feelings for her, even before we met faceto face. I've even wrote numerous poems for her to express my feelings. <br> Anyway, we have talked about these feelings about a ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
nikkeibrazilian 47 F 1  question	In love with my teacher. should I try to contact him? - 1/11/2001 I studied french in Japan for about 9 months, all the teachers there were native speakers. I loved them all, but there was one I was specially fond of. Sometimes we had man to man lessons and we talked about our private lives a little bit. I know he had a girl-friend by that time. The relations between teacher-pupil are prohibited as common sense. It's been over a year and a few months that ... 0 response(s), 4 votes
angle1913 40 M 1  question	Why am I scared? - 12/27/2000 When my Girlfriend and I make love, sometimes I like a little oral action. Me and Her have been going out for over 2 and a half years(2 years and 8 months as a matter a fact). But, when we make love, why do I get scared when I try to ask her for a BJ? Sometimes she would just get me all worked up( you know what I mean ^ ), and we would kiss and touch eacher and get each other ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
shy-heart 42 M 1  question	love a Japanese girl? - 12/21/2000 My girlfriend is Japanese and I love her like no other girl in my life before. She shows me her love so deeply and so often and she says she want to share her life with me. She couldn愒 imagine a life without me. I惴 very happy with her. We have so much in common and share our good and bad times. I惴 even young, but I cannot imagine a life without her!!! But I fear our families ... 0 response(s), 2 votes
DJProducer 43 M 1  question	true love over long distance.. make it offical? - 12/9/2000 Ok.. here is my problem: up until this year, i have lived in the US, but now i live in HK.. but, for the past couple years, I have been very good friends with this girl in S. Korea.. I first met her last year around christmas time, and we hit it off right away, even more-so than we did through email.. now, we talk on the phone all the time, and I goto see her, maybe once every 6 ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
libra999 42 M 1  question	should i go after her ?? is height important ??? - 12/1/2000 i just had a wonderful date with a cyber girl after knowing her for a while ... <br> before i even met her on the spot, i was just taking it casually as my past experiences with other blind date didnt turn out to be what i expected ... when i met her, i was surprise to find that she is somehow different from those girls that i dated before ... She is a pretty girl compare to the ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
naree 61 F 1  question	We have different custom. - 11/30/2000 I live in Bangkok, Thailand. I find someone in this website. He come to meet me at Bangkok for two week. I am glad to meet him. But he want me to stay with him all day and night. I live with my parent's home. I could not do it because we're not yet to marry. My mother will be angry me if I stay with him everytime. I try to explain for him and he did not understand. Thai people must ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
jeffmwknight 61 M 1  question	Do people think that age is a factor after thirtysomething? - 11/18/2000 Do you think that age is a factor after thirtysomething or do you believe you are as young as you feel and finding a soulmate isn't bound by age differences? 0 response(s), 0 votes
anniehuang0513 44 F 1  question	age, is it a problem? - 9/14/2000 if a boy is 20years elder than the girl, will the age be a problem to them in developing their relationship? 2 response(s), 3 votes
qtjade 42 M 3  questions	Is love Passion? - 8/30/2000 I am probably one in a million to believe that love is not passion, desire, or sex. I believe that love is a companion, it is undescribable and when it comes around you would know it. Love is not the desire to have someone, because in the phrase: "The fire is still burning" This is a phrase of desire and everyone knows that fire must stop burning eventually. Love can be sex but it is ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
qtjade 42 M 3  questions	What should you do if you love someone to death? - 8/26/2000 i really love my ex and I can't live without him. I'm not satisfied with the reason why he dumped me. He said he does not love me no more. But everything he said to me...I don't want it to be lies. I mean, I'm not an obsessive person because I don't follow him around, I don't call him up at night...I don't do any of those. All I do is think about him. How can I forget about him? I ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
qtjade 42 M 3  questions	Is it true that when a guy says he loves u no more he really means it? - 7/28/2000 I'm madly in love with a guy who I just broke up with because he claims he does not love me no more...but I can't put myself to believe that that is really the truth. What sign should I look for when a guy really means he does not love you? Thank-u for answering. 0 response(s), 1 vote
iso300 41 M 1  question	Is it just me or is it with somebody else? - 7/9/2000 I can't seem to keep up a friendship which will last more than a short period of time. I have no real friends to begin with. People who associate themselves with me only because they need my help, after all is done I get shoved aside. I am sure it has something to do with my height, I am an extremely short individual. I feel that most people out there are ashamed to hang out with me. What ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
corey911 50 M 1  question	Is it really possible to meet an asian girl????? - 6/11/2000 I am fairly new to the internet relationship scene. There seems to be an endless number of people in search of companionship. My dream is to meet a beautiful asian girl whom I can spend the rest of my life with. I have no way of knowing if the profiles on this, or any other site are for real or not. Does someone know for sure? Any advise? 0 response(s), 0 votes
ZableFar 44 M 1  question	Dunno what to do.. - 6/10/2000 I had been best friends with this girl for over 5 years, I think. We became more than that 2 1/2 years ago, but broke up maybe half a year ago. I'm not good with times n such. Anyhoo.. we broke up but still friends. My humdilly is she still loves me more than a friend. I still love her too, but I don't love her as much as I did, more just like a sister now. I want to find someone else now, ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
BLACKWIDOW21 45 F 1  question	men,why are they so possessive and so desperate? - 3/9/2000 every chat i had on the net, it was nice at the start but then they behaved like the bullet train!They would want your email address, contact no., photo and they would email you until you go crazy! the worse part is if you are chatting with him and another guy comes in , oh third world war starts!he would act as if i belonged to him!it's so embarassing and crazy.I am so scared to chat with ... 4 response(s), 0 votes
titisunny 45 F 1  question	Should I try some boyfriends because of loneliness? - 8/27/1999 Two boys both say that they want to be my boyfriends. I like both of them but I am not sure if I love them. I believe that there should be some difference between LOVE and LIKE. But sometimes I really feel lonely in my heart and I think maybe I really need a boyfriend to share my true feelings. My best friend advised me to accept them and to have a try. But I am afraid that when they ... 6 response(s), 0 votes