If there is a possibility for me to have a new life! I am 53, cheerful and dynamic, but menopause caused by sudden operation. my marriage was happy, but I don't think it is after my operation. I don't believe that: no sex means no happy marriage. Now my are becoming independent, I start thinking about our second happiness, and giving chance for my healthy husband to get a new spouse, she should be also healthy and strong to match him. I love him actually. But I realize, actually from the very beginning, my communication with my man is not a good one, he's a bit un-educated and too pride a person, but as I am an Asian woman, the show cannot be interrupted. I have been continuing living with a man with slightly hard characteristic. I am successful till I write this text.
Recently I thought I must hold and carry on this marriage. but sometimes, lately, isn't it wiser for me to try for another way out, his happiness, and mine too. I think now I need a real friend (not just an intercourse partner), who is easy to communicate with, and will accept my physical condition. ( they say I am pretty, though :)
我的理想對象:
A matured person, who needs a real friend in his life. He should be healthy, especially psychologically, so we can start to enjoy a new life delightfully and communicatively. I think it is important that this man shouldn't be demanding in sex. but I will try to do my best though. If there is some health problem happened to us, we should accept to support each other. As we've been in our senior age, I prefer he should be financially established. I am longing for a romantic man to be my long life partner, as these days I don't feel to having it. An educated man is preferably, cause I'm longing to have one in my entire life. but this depend. also. sometimes the paradigm that educated people are easier to communicate with, isn't always right.
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